What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Hempstead, Texas
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Maintenance Engineering
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bi but with a certain aspect of fetish
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Maybe around 10 to 15. I am very shy about some things and anxiety gets the better of me and thoughts of success about getting to do things.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
My First (And So Far Only) Bi Anything
How long ago did this hookup happen? Back in college
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I will call him Dave for this. I was doing a study on human relationships, mating habits, and rituals among many groups and each gender, and the times they cross, how often, and the severities of each time and event. Anyhow, I finally had a chance to get into the LGBT side of it. I ended up with a guy that was older than me. He was in his late 30s or early 40s, and he was good enough looking for a guy. I don’t think he would have much of any problem getting a woman of his choosing. I didn’t know him at all and had met him by accident that very night. I had never hooked up before this. I met him at the urinal at an LGBT club that I went to with a fellow college student that went there regularly. Before the hookup, I just thought the same of them as I would have anyone else around me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at the urinal trough and I saw something out of the corner of my eye and I turned to see what it was. He was standing there and was flaccid and had a massive stream that made a lot of noise when hitting the trough. It was soft and looked about 6 inches long and a good 4 inches around. He smiled and asked if I liked the look of it. I said it was actually the noise that made me look. He asked if i wanted to talk, and I said sure. I met him at his table and told him what I was there for and that I had never done anything with any guys or even thought of it before. Further on in the conversation, we started talking about the kind of porn I liked, what I liked about it, and if I ever fast-forwarded to get to any certain parts. I have to admit, I always did like getting to the money shot because I did like when it would go on her body. With that, he told me that he could show me something that I’d like and I asked what it was. He only said that as long as I had an open mind about things, that he had something he thought I would like. Having the drive to learn everything I can, I said okay. He simply told me to come with him to his house and that he would take me back to anywhere I asked to go to if or when I needed fo go. He promised and said that if it was not kept in any way, that he would make sure the keys to the other car were going to be handed to me so that I could go if I felt I needed to. So off we went. There was no planning involved and it was instigated by him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Now, at his house, he told me about what it was and what he wanted me to do. He said if after the first time I felt it was not for me, then I was free to call it a night. He asked if I had ever done anything like it, thought about it at all, or had any thoughts about it currently. I said no, nothing like this at all, ever. I had never really thought about it in this sense, but it did seem kind of curious to find out what it was I would possibly like. Then he told me what it was he thought I was going to like. He said that my favorite male porn star was Pete North and that if I did fast forward, then most of the time it was to the money shot. With those two things together, something told him that I either liked the cumshot already or that I soon will. I said: “maybe, maybe not, but what does that have to do with me and you right here and right now?” He pointed out how when I looked at him in the restroom earlier, my gaze lingered a bit. Then he told me he now wanted me to make me cum and watch when I do. He said that since I had never done anything, all he expected was for me to use my hands, but that if I wanted to do anything else it was up to me.
We got undressed and he sat on his bed and I got started. It was awkward and strange at first, and I don’t know why he didn’t just call it off by then, but eventually, things started to get better. I was not dying from touching another guy’s penis and after all, once he was fully erect, he was even bigger than me. He was a full 9 long and a massive 7 to 7.25 around. Now, I’d take girth over length every time cause it felt so great in my hands. I thought that was the best part and so far it was, but no, he told me the best was about to happen. His penis then swelled up and got harder than before and for some reason, I was hyper-aware of that and really excited about it and what was about to happen. He held off for a bit and I could tell, but then for some reason, I started to focus on the slit of the penis and heard him grunt low and hard. At that moment, the head had almost opened up and the cum erupted from it like a shotgun going off. The amount the force behind it, the thickness of the cum, everything just happened in slow motion. As soon as it shot out, another one started and more and more. 9 strong hard forceful ropes shot out within inches of my eyes. The throbbing shaft in my hand as I was just pumping up and down. I never stopped pumping, and he never went soft. I couldn’t help it. He was absolutely right, I loved it. I ended up staying the night with him and had him shoot off a total of 11 times before he said he was too raw to keep going on.
He loved that I was so enthralled with watching it happen. He was the best to have my first time of anything like this with, and he was very gentle and easy about everything. It was a great thing and left me with a desire to try to find someone who can cum like that again and would let me make it happen as many times as it can. As for a lover, I don’t know, but as for the one that can give you something that’s a strong desire, he was tops. If I could find him, I know I would definitely do oral for the first time and I would also love to feel it happen in my mouth for the first time as well. We spent the night talking about all kinds of things. It ended with me having a fetish for watching a closeup cumshot as it happens and as close as I can get to it when it happens.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day, it was the only thing I could think about, no matter what. My hope for the future is to find someone that has a very large amount of cum and that can shoot it with great power and force and who will let me cause it and be as close up to watch it happen as many times as possible, a very girthy penis that is just so thick that I would have problems wrapping my hand around it, a long and girthy penis, a bbc to play with, and a group of guys that just want to cum.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have not told anyone before. I just started thinking you know what, I want to find another person like that. I loved it and I want it again.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The incredible way he came, the cumshots, and the girth he had.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I have not had any kind of a repeat of this situation in any way since.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope, it just made me want to make a guy cum so I can watch it happen live and as close as I can get to it as it happens.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I want it to happen again and much more frequently.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I firmly believe more casual or nsa things need to go on across the board. Also, older women, please go ahead and let young guys get to have the chance with you. There could be guys so much better at it when they get older because you taught them the right way from the start. We want you, we need you, and I’m sure you could have a ton of fun with a young, hard body.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? You guys are great so far. You can post my email with this, I don’t mind. I want to find something like this again because it was great and I want more of it.
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