My First Blowjob

by J.James

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? BC
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Truck Driver
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First Blowjob

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Curious about sucking another guy. Posted on craigslist. Messaged back and forth for a few hours.
He was a little more experienced, a bit younger, tall, bigger than average cock.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Working in a remote mine with camp accomodations. Lots of guys. Few women. After a few weeks away from home I realized I could experiment anonymously and discreetly. Craigslist seemed a good outlet for killing some boredom.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was pretty quick. He knocked on my door as we agreed and pushed it open. We introduced ourselves and sized each other up. Made some semi awkward chat and drank a beer. Agreed on a few boundaries, agreed we were just interested in mutual oral, no kissing, nothing else.

Got undressed on my bed and sat side by side as we both started getting hard. Started stroking each other and moving around to get in better position. He started on me as I lay on my back, watching him stroke me and start teasing the head of my cock before licking down the shaft, then taking it all in his mouth. It wasn’t his first time and it was pretty good. I was close to cumming already but wanted to taste him. I pulled him up above me on his hands and knees and grabbed his 7 inch cock in my hands. It was hard as a rock and I positioned myself so I could suck him. It was my first time and I was cautious. Licking around the heads and down the shaft. Kissing it before putting it all between my lips and sucking like an ice cream cone. I took as much as I could to the back of my throat….

He wasn’t ready to cum either so he went back to sucking me for a bit as I fondled his cock. We traded back, with him straddling me as I reached my head up up to suck him. Finally we were ready to finish and he was about to cum. I finished him off by hand and he came all over my chest. Quickly he went back to sucking my cock and as I was about to cum I pulled his mouth off me and he stroked me till I finished, my cum mixing with his on my chest and stomach.
He rolled off me as we both went flaccid. We cleaned ourselves off and finished our beer before he left.
Never saw him again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Never saw him again.
He messaged me later telling me how good I was for a first time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Have only mentioned it to a few select people in my life. My bisexual nature is very secret and I haven’t explored it very much.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Trying new things

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Feeling of shame

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was a generally good time, would do it again under similar circumstances. It was important for me to share this story with my current partner in the hopes that I feel comfortable with my full self. This may also open some doors for some MMF action in the future.

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