My First Time With A Guy



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Missoula montana
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Construction
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4 girls and 3 guys
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My First Time With A Guy

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was 5’8″ fit body, brown hair, really soft spoken voice, 6 inch long perfectly shaped cock.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I found him on Craigslist personals, he was looking for a guy that wanted to suck his dick and fuck. I emailed him, talking to each other for several hours about how and where we could meet up, he invited me to his house, shook his hand told him I was the one emailing him. I told him I only take dick. And that my dick does not get sucked or go inside him. He said he prepared it that way,

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we got to his bedroom, we talked for a few minutes smoked some weed, while we told one another more about ourselves we got undressed, he had on a gray sweeter dark blue shorts gray briefs, I was nervous because it was my first time with a guy, but I drove across town at night so I could hook up with this guy no way was I not going to do it. I had on a purple thong blue jeans and a t-shirt, he was on his knees in the middle of the bed stroking his cock looking at me. I said, “Lay back and I’ll suck that.”

He laid on his back, legs spread. I crawled on his bed and started sucking his dick. I have used dildos since I was 15, I know I enjoy anal sex, but it was the first time I had actually sucked another guys dick. I didn’t want to give a bad blowjob so I focused as had as I could on how I was sucking his dick. I watch porn all the time and study different tricks and techniques, finally getting to practice them. I sucked his dick for 4 or 5 minutes, not sure. Once I got stripped down to my thong and saw his perfectly snapped 6 inch white cock, I could not think of anything else, he stood up off his bed grabbed the box of rubbers and astroglide I had brought with me. I laid on my stomach across the foot of his bed as he rolled the condom on lubed his hard cock, he got behind me and the rush I got through my entire body as I felt his penis slowly slide inside me, after 1 or 2 slow pumps in and out he started gently thrusting. I was paralyzed. All I could do was hold onto his blankets and breathe heavy, it was amazing. He fucked me for a while. I was letting my mind spin like a top. He pulled his dick out of my butt, stripped the condom off, and got back on the bed. I didn’t think twice. I leaned over and started sucking him off, his dick twitched, he grunted, and I could taste the hot creamy cum squirting in my mouth. I sucked until he was done cumming with a smile on my face I swallowed his cum.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Didn’t take long to get dressed he showed me out we smoked a cigarette both said thank you and I drove home, next day I was still high from it all, never heard from him again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend she was happy for me,

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sucking dick for the first time

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The worst thing is

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The worst part was it was a one nightstand

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am very supportive of casual sex, with both men and women. Life’s to short not to experience all the joys offered in life.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I support it.

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