My First Tinder Hookup



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Brisbane
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First Tinder Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 19-year-old pale, gothic looking girl with her bottom lip pierced, average build with small breasts. We had both swiped right on tinder and organized to meet that same night, piquing her curiosity to have sex with a black guy for the first time. I drove about 40 minutes to meet her outside her workplace at around 10 pm. I was just very eager to get into it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After picking her up, we decided to drive somewhere secluded as to not be spotted by others. She lived in a relatively small and quiet town so that was not too hard. We parked up outside some farm fences towards the back end of the town and moved to the back seat and got straight into making out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out for a few minutes before I asked her if she gave head. She said yes, and proceeded to do so. She was not very skilled and quite slow so I asked if I could eat her out. I did so for a few minutes, during which she came twice and bucked onto my face. I was so horny at this point that I just got my dick out, put her on her back across the back seat, and stuck my dick in her pussy. She was so very tight and it felt so very good, although she was not deep enough, in this position, to take all my dick, and could feel myself hitting her cervix, so I had to go slowly. After a while, I could feel myself about to cum, so I told her to get on top, and she rode me. Again she wasn’t too good at this but it helped with the slowing down of my cumming. After that, I put her in doggy and pounded her, being finally able to fit my dick inside her and just went all out. I asked if she was on birth control, she said yes, I asked if I could then cum in her, she said: “yeh go for it.” I came so hard I accidentally pushed her whole body causing her to hit her head on the door. The cum came dripping out so she just smeared whatever was remaining on her outer pussy. We got dressed and I dropped her home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? This was a point in my life where I was going through some issues that caused my promiscuity to be very rampant. So after every sexual contact I had, most of which, including this one, were without protection, I would stressfully book into the clinic for a checkup. Luckily i caught nothing and she was not pregnant. I talked to her a few times afterwards and met maybe 3 or 4 more times within a 2 month period.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? When I went overseas on holiday to my home country, UK, some friends were going through my phone and saw the tinder conversations that led to this event, so I told them about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How hard I came. I don’t think I’ve come that hard since to be quite honest

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was not too skilled with giving head or riding a dick, but that wasn’t too much of an issue.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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