My Friend



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Aurora
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Other
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Mormon
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I’m gay, but I do girls.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s cute. Balding. A little older. Has a gf/wife. Lives in the apt downstairs. I knew him about 2 years. I have a crush on him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was laying down in the common basement. On my bed. Laying down is better on my back. I was so horny. He came downstairs to get his and his gf/wife’s clothes. Climbed on top of me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He climbed on top of me, I felt his dick, much bigger than mine, through my sweats and blanket. I lower my sweats and he removed the blanket. Told me not to moan loud as his wife was home. And he’d never done this before. I told him, me neither, but I wanted it. He slid his cock in, my god, must’ve been big. I bit my lip to not scream/moan. He kissed my neck and covered my mouth with his hand. I humped the bed, cumming. He tweaked my nipples. He pounded my virginal ass in and out quickly, til he came. He pulled out. I asked him if I could clean him off. I had him hard again. I sucked him for a few minutes til he came hard down my throat. I asked to come down again when his girl was gone.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I’m hoping he comes back down. I’m waiting for him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had my first cock in my ass. And he was, hopefully still is, my friend.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He’s got a girl, and not gay.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nice sized balls.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Its OK

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its cool

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