What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? United Kingdom Newport South Wales
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Experimental
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Sperm Donor/One-Night Stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife and I have been married for 18 years. I am infertile so I can not help my wife get pregnant. We have tried iva with donor sperm, but that never worked. We have been happy with our lives, but last year she started to talk about how sad she was not having kids and how she has a hole in her heart because of that. So I mentioned to her that I will have to get her a boyfriend to get her pregnant (jokingly). She didn’t see it that way and actually started to research how to get pregnant and found these websites that you can get a guy to sleep with your wife to get her pregnant. She told me about that and I acted like I was surprised but actually, I was so turned on and wanted her to fuck other guys for a long time. We agreed to do this only if I can be in the room and watch them fuck, she agreed. So we made a profile and had some responses. Then we narrowed down the guys to 3 and met them one by one at a bar to get to know them better. We hit it off with one of them and decided to go ahead with this. We kept talking it through and decided to do the deed on her next fertile cycle. The night came that we met up with him and she waited in the room while I went and got him downstairs. We were all nervous, but it was going to be very exciting.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into the room and sat and made small talk for a bit. Then he went and sat next to her on the bed. They started to kiss and some heavy petting began, and she was loving it. I had my phone out recording every minute. After a bit he had her tits out, sucking and caressing them, pinching her nipples every so often. She was getting really horny, I could tell. Next thing, she was on her knees sucking him of like she had never sucked before, and I was loving this. He got up, threw her on the bed, and took her panties off before diving head first (or tongue first) into her wet pussy. She was holding his head between her legs and bucking her back while she was enjoying his tongue. Then he got up and held his thick cock in his hand and moved in between her legs. She gasped as he entered her, and my heart jumped as it was a dream come true for me. He started slow and deep and then started to pick up the pace as he thrust into her pussy over and over. She was moaning so loudly that I was sure the whole hotel could hear her. The sound of his cock slapping in and out was amazing combined with her heavy moaning. She was saying oh my god over and over as he pounded her pussy. This went on for more than 30 minutes and he had her in multiple positions and fucked her pussy very well. When he said he was going to cum I was quite disappointed to hear that, but she did cum a few times with him, and when he unloaded in her my heart bounced as I knew she could be pregnant. He thrust into her a few times as he cum and then slid off her and laid there panting. My wife closed her legs and elevated her back to try and preserve the sperm in her. I was standing there with my hard cock in my hand looking at them.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She didn’t get pregnant and we tried a few more times but it never happened. My wife likes to fuck other men in front of me now and likes to have new guys inside her very often and I love seeing it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature), Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Sperm donor
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have told some of my male friends about the hookup and they have fucked my wife since then.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? My wife likes me to watch her fuck as much as I like watching.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing bad to say.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Oh yes, we both like her to fuck more and she is well up for that.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I am upset that we can’t get pregnant, but love to see her fuck.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I don’t hook up with any woman, that is not quite an equal relationship. I get more than enough sex from her, but not near as many as her.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think this is an interesting project and some of the hookups are hot.
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