New Experience

by Amelia

Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: German
Current location: Germany
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Health Care
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

New Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him at a club. I was there with two of my friends. He looked like a australian surferboy – i never met an australian surferboy but i will say he looks like one. He was very tall. I had to stand on my tiptoe and he had to bend down a bit. He had blond hairs till to his neck – so they were longer then mine. As he was tall he had a wide chest and shoulders. He told me that he was one year on a worldtrip what i all in all likes very much.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We danced (and kissed) a lot in the Club and after awhile he asked me if he can maybe sleep at my place because he has no appartment at the moment and the flat where he lives are full of people/friends right now. I said he can sleep on our couch (i knew my roommate was not at home) but i also knew that if i say that he will never sleep on the couch. At around 6am we left the party and went to my place. While i was at the bathroom he lay at my bed – shirtless and waited for me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing and touching and i didn`t feel so comfortable with him after arriving my home because i wasn`t drunk anymore and everything was more clear. But he was a very very good kisser and after awhile i felt better and we touched each other more and more and lost our clothes.
I don`t remember so well but we had a very long time sex. He tried every position it was a littlebit to much because i had to start from the beginning for an orgasm for me. He whispered things to me to make me more horny, what was really very good and new for me. No man before did that. He always asked if he can fuck me into my ass but i never tried it and i don’t wanted to do it with him. So i allowed one finger but it didn`t felt good for me. All the time his cock was very hard. He wanted that i get an orgasm that`s why he waited for me and tried a lot of stuff.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Me not – and he was sad about that. He had an orgasm.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I take birth control pill and we used a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had a very long relationship and want some fun now. He looked very good and i was a bit horny.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We drunk beer. I was a bit drunk at the beginning but not anymore if we arrived at my home. It seems like the same with him.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We slept two hours then i woke him up because he said the night before he has a dinner with someone. He was late so he jumped out of my bed into the bathroom, came back and give me a short kiss and left my home 5min. later.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my BFF. She smiled, asked how was it and talked about a different topic.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? best: i think i like it if the man whispering erotical things and i know now that i don`t like a finger or anything else in my ass.

worst: it was definitely to long

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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