No L8 Cummer, No Party

by Marco_Mediterraneanguy

Gender: Male
Age: 22
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Italy
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: God, does he or she exist within mankind? Grounded practically lifestyle makes myself forget about this question.
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Gay
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Gay, through and through
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Not many
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

No L8 Cummer, No party

How long ago did this hookup happen? About 2 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My buddy and I met each other at the university for the first time. He was so handsome. That kinda guy I hardly pull myself over: tall, toned body and loser-like face that immediately fades away once you had contact with him. I was totally charmed by him.
After a long and intense eye-contact, we had our first chat: talking about that damn English exam no one ever passed but me. I was very good at it and I offered him private lessons to keep himself up with the classes. 
He was very eager about that.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I invited him to my place; no one, even my parents, was there, so there were no other guests. I had no clue about his sexual orientation, but I did not give a fuck at the moment he chose to sit next to me. 
I blushed, which made him approach towards me more closely. I felt so nervous that I had the bare idea of what I was about to tell him anymore; I felt he was far attractive from me, which doubted me how to speak properly in that specific moment.
I had nasty thoughts dancing around my head that made me stand still for him to not go away. I feared he could not see me as a friendly pal.
However, everything’s changed when he whispered to me “I like you too”.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Then, I was through with holding onto my self- control. We made out softly. Clothes were off, underwear still on. 
I thought things would be moving forward, but he did not taste as I expected. He came out as a complete mess! I guess I idolized him so much that my fairy tale of a perfect one night stand crashed with reality. I figured out I had to be in charge of that in order to satisfy myself, at least. 
I kissed his chest while playing with his big bulge hidden underneath his pants. I was about to lean toward it, but he did cum…
I laughed so out loud even though he kept telling me the reason why was because I was a “too hot lover”.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I had no time even to pick a condom out of the box. 
We had no discussion on STLs.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? The way it all started made feel me comfortable with having a hookup.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No, at all.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I pretended everything was fine and allow him to ask me if I still had the pleasure to meet him again. I nodded because I was quite glad that a handsome guy like him was on my track even if our rendez vous was a big epic fail.
However, he did not call me to go on a date again but he was quite obsessed with my English notes. Sad.. 
If I think about it, I am quite glad that a good looking man was interested in me sexually.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked about it to my BFFs, who were really glad I went through. At least, it was funny.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Of course not. That empowered my self-esteem a bit because I believed no one would ever notice for the way I am.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This one night stand did affect the way I think about casual sex: no social apps could have ever been that helpful. I mean, I did have sex with boys I met online but chemistry sparking in a face-to-face situation is unrivaled.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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