What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? College Prof
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Spiritual
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 75
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met him on an on-line dating site
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We chatted on-line for a few days, exchanged number and started texting. H invited me to his house. W watched a movie, he instigated it by kissing me and we moved in th bedroom. There wa no planning on my end
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hook-up while we were kissing he started to touch me an disclosed that he loved to eat pussy. He went down on m for a while and I am kinda bored I told him to come fuck me. He had a beautiful cock and it felt really good. He gave it to me from behind do do do do do rubbed my clit. We then switched positions so he was on top. It didn’t take long for him to cum. We didn’t use a condom and I was a bit disappointed until he pulled out. Laid with his head besides mine and started to finger me and rub his fingers over my clit. While doing so he kept telling me how h wanted to put his tounge deep in my ass. When I told him it might be a bit soon for that he put his head between my legs – opened my labia with a hand on with side and rubbed the inside of me wit wit wit tips while he licked and sucked my clit . Just as I was about to cum he put his fingers in my ass and pussy at the same time.
I felt so adored, sexy, yummy, and amazing. My partner behaved so respectfully. Excellent, attentive lover, very enthusiastic!
We cuddled an touched each other talked about work a bit, family, etc. It ended about 2 hours later when I had to go home
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt great. No hope from my side.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), I was feeling lonely, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Noone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It hasnt
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that people take their sexuality way too seriously. Sex is a natural as breathing. If you teach our kid to respect and love their bodies and other people’s then healthier sexuality will be mor pervasive. People who respect others bodies do not hurt others without consent or take sex from others
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s an opportunity for people to tell their stories safely without judgement which is good. I am not sure it will get a realistic view of what is really going on as I am not sure how you control for people who would enjoy placing random sexual fantasies.
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