What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States, Newburgh
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Merchandise Handler
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Nude Photography Turned Hook Up
How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 months ago from January 31st
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was African American, very curvy, huge boobs and big butt. I met her on Craigslist. I wasn’t expecting to get laid.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began in a hotel room since we couldn’t go to her place. I was taking pics of her nude and just asked her if she would like to have sex.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At first, she only wanted oral, so we 69’d each other until I made her cum. She came very quickly, only from oral. Then we did it missionary, I kissed her a bit, then doggy style, then cowgirl and she kissed me back. Then she was close to cumming again but I had to cum. It felt great because I never made a girl cum with my mouth. I came on her boobs at the end.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both got dressed and I finished the photo shoot, then I took her home. I was honestly expecting her to be an FWB but lost contact with her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel more confident, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her body was amazing and I’ve always dreamed of having sex with a girl that was curvy and had big boobs.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The location of the motel and also I didn’t do any pillow talk.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. Now I see how some people just click and hook up for that one moment.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? There is a lot of good that casual sex brings. It helps a lot of people, provided that their mindset is adult and they don’t expect anything back from their partner unless they make a relationship.
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