What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What country and/or city do you live in? Oakpark I’ll
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Airline supervisor
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Baptist
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? None
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Ten
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One
One Night Stand
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two nights ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They guy was very handsome. I didn’t know him . Never hooked up before. We meet in a restaurant / Bar no feelings for him .
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup Begin at this Restaurant/ Bar I was siting a the bar waiting on my table for dinner. He came in and sit at the bar and order himself a drink. What led up to it he spoke to me saying hello and told the bar tender to give me what ever I was drinking. He said that I was a beautiful woman. I said thank you. He asked, was I married. I told him no. I asked was he married and he said no. So the waitress said my table was ready for dinner. So he asked, “could he join me for dinner.” I said sure. So he instigated it he kept saying that he would like to taste me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So at the Restaurant he invited me to the washroom with him. It was one toilet bathroom with a table. He locked the door! He laid his jacket on the table and sat me on the table. Kissing me, he pulled my panties off and started licking my pussy and my clitoris . I felt so good. He behaved very well toward me. He penetrated my vagina. He had my leg on his shoulders. This guy was an excellent lover. He had a nice big package!! We talked about how good the sex was and he said that I had a nice ass. We freshen up and went back to our table for dessert and coffee. The waitress brought the check. And he said that he would take care of it. He did and left the waitress a nice tip. We said our goodbyes. He walk me to my car and he went to his car. That was it.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup I went home and sleep very well. I felt good about it the next day. I hope that I see him again. He told me he come in for dinner and drinks several times a week. I go to the restaurant looking for him. I gave the waitress my phone number to call me when he comes in!!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My girlfriend ! She said WHAT!!! And she ask was it Good and what Size was his penis.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best about the hookup was the sex and how he licked my pussy until I was dripping with cum. And his penis was big and it fit my vagina very well and the more he penetrated the more orgasms I had .
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The worst thing was that he gave me his card with his information on it and I left it on the table at the restaurant. And it got thrown away.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes it has changed me a lot about casual sex !! It’s okay if it’s agreed on. I’m not looking for marriage I just looking for a good time . And it’s hard to find a guy that can please you.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Just I am 50 years old and I always have had casual sex but this time it was different. This guy had no limits in pleasing me . And he ask me what I like. And he Delivered.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing just be happy
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I ‘m happy about the casual sex project where you can tell your story!!
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