One Night Stand

by Aathiya

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Hyderabad
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Few

One Night Stand

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him through mutual friends on fb. We spoke for a while and flirted casually. I was too depressed after a breakup. He hinted that he liked to get in bed. He was a virgin then and was lil awkward. We met in the morning for coffee and felt there was some spark and decided to meet up that evening as it was my last day in the city

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at a hotel in the evening as planned by him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He undressed me, kissed me and started suckling my boobs. He explored all parts of my body, then entered me and went wild on top. He came inside and would be ready in 10 min again. We went on the whole night 8-9 times. I was surprised at the energy. Later he aggressive in doggy, and I loved it. We went from 9 pm to 6 am.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are still in touch although in different cities and plan to hook up again. I really love his energy and like to explore where it goes.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Exploring, mood uplift

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Couldn’t meet him afterward

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Like our society to take it lightly

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