One Night Stand Whilst Married

by Melanie

Gender: Female
Age: 38
Race/ethnicity: England
Current location: Southampton, England
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Project Manager
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

One Night Stand Whilst Married

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Never met the guy before. His name was Roger, 24 yrs old, very hot, looked like an Aberchrombie and Fitch model!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Went up to London with my husband for a wedding reception. We stayed in the hotel the night before, but my husband had to drive back to Southampton after to relieve the babysitters. It was agreed that I would stay on in the hotel on my own, shop on the Sunday and then get train back. During the reception, Roger came and chatted me up even though I was with a group that included my husband! He was very cheeky and very bold and after my hubby left, he talked me into bed! First time in 10 yrs of marriage I’ve ever strayed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went back to my hotel room, he stripped me and then himself. For about an hour he touched and tongued me all over, lots of oral sex! Only then did he enter me and we had sex 5 times, all in different positions. Between times, lots more foreplay and oral sex. He was an amazing lover, and confessed to over 100 lovers, so lots of experience. He kept referring to me as Mrs .., to remind me what a naughty girl I was being and that just increased the sexual tension even more!

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, about 10! Which equates to about a years worth with my hubby. Roger came 3 times

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He wore a condom, I’m on the pill

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Fancied the guy like hell! Also, the idea of cheating on my hubby for the first time was very exciting

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had breakfast in bed! Won’t see him again.

He was a great lover, but until he decides to settle down, he’ll be totally unsuitable boyfriend material.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my husband went I got back as can’t keep a secret. I knew he’d be ok with it as he knows I can separate sex from love. He said he knew I’d succumb to a seduction one day as I’m very good looking and get chatted up a lot, but then not get emotionally involved. He guessed something would happen with Roger as he sensed the sexual tension. He thought about saying something, but decided to let events run their course.
He didn’t even mind when I told him how great Roger was in bed, compared not just with him but any guy I’ve had before

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, we both wanted it

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Absolutely not, especially as I knew my hubby would be OK with it

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Roger was the full package for any girl wanting a fling. Young, gorgeous, very cheeky and masterful in bed!

Not sure if I’ll stray again, as the itch has finally been scratched. Feel great about myself and a lot sexier than when I was in my 20’s

Have always loved casual sex and thought that I would stray one day

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Any married girl thinking about a one night stand with a hot guy, go for it! Especially if you can separate sex from love.

You only live once, enjoy it!

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