Open Relationship



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America

Open Relationship

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was around 5 ft 8 inches tall. She had had jade eyes, tan skin a little curvy with nice b cups and shoulder-length brown hair. She had messaged me online as she had seen a post of mine on a mutual friends site. We had talked a couple times through messenger. I thought she was pretty cute but also knew she was married.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After talking a couple days online, she sent me a topless picture of her self. She asked if I was interested in her. Of course, I was. She asked me to come out to get house that night. When I got there her 2 kids were home and herself. She put them in bed and we sat on the couch for a bit and watched tv. She then asked if we could go upstairs and watch a movie. We ended up in her room on her bed. She too me not to worry that her husband knew I was over and as okay with me. We watched a little bit of the movie and then started to make out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I put my hand down her pants and fingered her while made out. She was super wet. She pulled down my pants and began to suck my cock. She knew what she was doing and could take my full length. After about 5 minutes of sucking, she laid down on the bed and pulled off her pants and panties. She told me the only thing I couldn’t do was cum in her. I said okay but I didn’t bring a condom. She said to just pull out. I so I easily into her wet pussy. We did it missionary until she came. We then switched to doggie style. I was pounding her from behind when I could feel I was about to cum. I told her I was close and asked if I should pull out. She said no I want to feel you cum in me. I pushed in deep and shot a load into her waiting pussy. I left shortly after.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I met her husband and he wanted to know details on what happened. It was weird but I told him everything that happened. I have spoken to either since

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My buddies. They didn’t believe I hooked up with a married woman.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

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