What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 16
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Oral In The Back Seat
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? His shaggy blonde hair and bright blue eyes made him alluring to even the pickiest of girls. The pictures his sister had sent me of him were cute, and I couldn’t wait to meet him in person. His sister told me he was single and lonely, horny as fuck, and I knew I could make a night out of it. All I needed was a little alcohol, and a little weed.
Emily picked me up with Sarah and Ben in the back seat. I called shotgun before they even got in the car. I said hi to Ben and fist bumped Sarah. We were on our way to get alcohol and we picked up our plug, got the stuff and went to the beach.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The party was fine, I loosened up a bit after a couple drinks. I wasn’t that used to being drunk and I was very lightweight, so I was very buzzed off of a couple hard lemonades. Ben didn’t drink.
I sat down next to ben and told him that I wanted to hook up with him, and that I was still a virgin. He enthusiastically agreed to hook up with me and said that he was a virgin too. I told him i didn’t know yet how far I wanted to take it.
I got up and took a hit off a bong, and it sent me into overdrive. Now not only was I crossfaded, but extremely horny.
When the cops showed up to the party, we took off up the hill. We sat in the back of his sister’s car, because she picked up a guy at the party and he wanted shotgun. at this point I was so gone, I started to lose parts of my short term memory.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We drove to a park and Emily and Michael went out to go fuck on the playground. poor Sarah didn’t have a guy so she sat on the curb while I asked Ben for a kiss. He immediately started passionately kissing me, and I felt my pussy getting wet. I unzipped my pants and he slid his fingers into my vagina. he hit my g-spot within a few seconds and mercilessly thrust his three fingers inside me. my moans grew louder. At this point, the car door opened, and Sarah, realizing what she walked in on, shut the door and let us continue.
I felt his dick over his pants and told him how hard he was. This was his cue to pull his zipper down and expose himself.
He had a really hot dick. He was shaved, which was so nice, considering my ex-boyfriend (and my only other sexual partner at that point) never shaved and it was very annoying.
He pushed my head down as I sucked his dick. Reaching the back of my throat and causing me to gag a few times. He must have liked this because he was moaning and pressing my head down further.
After about 5 minutes, he came in my mouth and on my face, and a little in my hair, which was a little too short to tie back. He helped me clean off my face and we got dressed again. Waiting for Emily and Michael to come back from their little party.
My memory went in and out of focus, and next thing I knew we were at the park.
Ben and I got out of the car and set up camp with a couple blankets. after about a half a minute of Lying still, I couldn’t help myself and I grabbed his dick, finding it to be hard again.
I took off his pants and he took off mine and I asked him to go down on me.
He did, very sloppily, and for about fifteen seconds, before he decidedly quit and went back to fingering me. Since I didn’t orgasm the last time he did vaginal stimulation, I realized that my clit needed some attention. and I touched myself while he was fingering me. I came within a minute and a half.
After I orgasmed, he whispered in my ear and asked me if I wanted to stay a virgin.
I hesitated, and then said yes. That I was too drunk and too high and that it would be a bad idea.
He originally pressured me to let him fuck me, but I told him I would suck his dick again if he stopped asking. So he agreed and I did. He came all over my breasts and on my vulva.
I woke up the next day naked, lying next to him, wondering how much of the night before I remembered. And if there was more to it than just oral. maybe I’ll never know.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I missed my period. I was terrified that I was pregnant because he came on my vulva. I read somewhere that it can happen. I took a test and it came out negative so that was a huge relief.
we chilled the next day and ate edibles that didn’t really do anything, and then we didn’t speak again until a couple of months ago I found out that he had had a girlfriend at the time we hooked up. I messaged him about it, and his girlfriend was on his phone. so naturally, she got the message instead of him. I told her everything and then proceeded to yell at him when he got his phone back. they’re still together, I don’t even know why, because apparently he hooked up with multiple people other than me. some girls just are so desperate to keep a man, aren’t they?
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power, Making new friends, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Blacked out / Passed out
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? some of it I consented to, but I don’t know what else happened when I was blacked out.
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told his sister, only because she had told me to tell her what happened between us. she knew we would hook up. I told one of my other friends and turns out, she dated him freshman year. only a few other people knew and they were only surprised because I seem innocent and “holy”
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I wish I hadn’t been so wasted. I would have enjoyed it more. I also feel like I could have been taken advantage of because I was so gone, but he was completely sober.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I gave a GREAT blowjob, and learned that I was very good at it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I honestly don’t even remember half of it.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t think I’ll have casual sex again. I’m glad there were no strings attached, but finding out he had a girlfriend afterward was a major turn off, and I don’t want to go through that again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? his sister and I are still best friends, and sometimes we talk about the time I almost fucked her brother.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? if it works for you, great. personally, I don’t think it’s for me.
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