What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 53
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Baltimore, Maryland
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Business owner
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I do enjoy oral play with guys and having them fuck my woman
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? about 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was about 50. She is a good looking woman with dark hair. She was kind of the librarian type. I met her on POF and we talked back and forth via email for a few days and then decided to meet. I liked her, she was nice.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook up was not planned. We met for the first time and went to lunch. We decided to hang out the rest of the day. I took her back to my place that evening and things got hot. We ended up in bed where I found out she had recently had a hip replaced ( I would not have known because she walked fine). She was nimble in bed and I was her first since the surgery. I believe she just wanted to try it out to make sure she could still fuck right.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did missionary, we each went down on the other. We did doggie style. I tried to do anal but she wasn’t comfortable with that. We both had a good time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Yes, we were both seemed fine, but as it turns out she was ashamed of herself as she had never done anything like it. This caused her to withdraw. I was hoping for more but it wasn’t meant to be.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A woman friend. She was fine with it. Gave me some good advice.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had fun and it was a learning experience on how to deal with rejection.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to see her again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? For a lady with a hip replacement, she could fuck.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Well now I am in a relationship and she is open to experimentation. I would love to see her do some MFM experiences with me. I would love to see her fully satisfied.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Pretty cool. I just stumbled on it.
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