What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Retailer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
POF Santa Maria, CA
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a beautiful Hispanic 43 years old and beautiful. We work together but didn’t talk. She sent me a text apologizing for violating my personal health information to get my phone number to text me on my birthday. I figured she was interested so I asked her to dinner.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a few weeks of breakfasts and texting, she had the idea of getting a hotel room on the beach so we could walk, watch movies, and eat dinner. We got there around 9 pm, and I brought Chinese food. We were outside on a cold California night talking for hours before going into the room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Back in the room we got into our PJs and watched a movie. She showered and gave me a peck on the cheek as she was cleaning up her clothes. Then she got into bed, and we were spooning and talking. After a while, she turned around and gave me a look, and we just started kissing. Earlier she had told me that we wouldn’t be having sex, so I was kissing her and grabbing her ass outside her yoga pants. She wasn’t stopping me, so I put my hands in her pants and grabbed her ass then eventually I got to the front and started fingering her pussy. I came in my underwear as I was fingering her so, I pulled down her yoga pants and began to attack her beautiful pussy with my mouth. She tasted great and had short stubbly hair. It was great because she was so turned on, I tasted every part of her pussy. I never got hard after I came earlier.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Subsequent weeks have gone by and I never brought it up. She has a very limited availability. I have since told her the truth about why I didn’t fuck her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not fulfilling my duties.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Read the other’s body language.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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