Post Break Up BJ



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Post Break Up BJ

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two days after

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 5 4 petite frame olive Afghan complexion beautiful face and eyes dark hair and eyes. Matched on tinder had some light but real convo. Moved onto texting where she told me she hates to text so she called to hang out. I was nervous to meet and hang with someone as I had been in 2 year relationship until a few months before and just found out ex was hooking up with someone else too which was making me feel pretty motivated but still anxious about meeting someone. When we had talked she told me I gotta get out of the gross feeling of my ex being with someone by just getting it out of my system. She seemed like she wanted it to not happen with her but also definitely wanted to help me get out of my slump somehow.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She called me and after talking for like an hour asked if I wanted to hang out and after apprehension, I said I’d come over. When I arrived we walked around her neighborhood than just went back to her apt where we had a beer and some weed watching Apple TV and discussing our lives etc. after a while she said she was going to bed and said I could stay over.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I made out with her on top of me in her bed in our underwear. She asked if I had condoms which I stupidly didn’t bring and she had none either. I honestly hadn’t even expected to make it that far based on conversation previously had but I guess I’ll never take that assumption again ha.
After realizing condom wasn’t happening we continued to fool around. I went down on her for several minutes. She was quiet but moved a lot and liked playing with my hair while I ate her out and sucked her nipples and fingered her. Then she had me kneel and sat with my cock in her mouth and proceeded to suck me off while I held her hair and played with her wet clit and breasts. Holding her head while she held and sucked my dick until I unloaded in her mouth and she swallowed it.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Slept over and the next morning we hung out for a few and chatted somewhat awkwardly until I decided I had to leave

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel better about myself, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Mostly regret not bringing condoms

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the head felt amazing when I came

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? kinda wish I didn’t have to do it to feel better about myself or my ex hooking up with someone else

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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