What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? accounting
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual


How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Matched with her on Tinder. She was a bit on the larger side but I was going through a breakup at the time and made it clear that I was just looking to hookup. She wasnt interest in that at the time so I let it die off, until she messaged me a few weeks later.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had exchanged numbers during the previous preamble so I got a text from her one evening out of the blue. She told me she was embarrassed about it, but she was interested in what I had been interested in before, a.k.a. just to hookup. I hadn’t had sex in a while so I was pumped. We made plans to meet up at her place later that evening (she also coincidentally lived in the same complex as a coworker of mine). She warned me again upfront that she was on the heavy side, to which I did not care about. I arrived in the lobby of her building and she greeted me and led me up to her unit. We watched some cheesy crime reenactment series on Netflix for a while while I cracked some funny commentary about it to lighten the mood and make her laugh. We watched a couple episodes until I let her make the first move and she climbed onto my lap and we started making out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? This didn’t last long before she took me to her bedroom. She made it clear when we were messaging earlier that she didn’t want to give or receive oral so I was a bit disappointed about that but got over it quickly. We started undressing as soon as we were in the room. She was a bit heavy but had one of the most amazing vaginas I’ve ever seen. She made me put on a condom, then I pushed her down on the bed, climbed on top and slid myself inside her. I could tell from her behavior the whole time that she wasn’t very sexually experienced but she felt so incredible and tight nonetheless. I rode on top of her rapidly for a bit until she wanted to be on top. We switched it up but she wasn’t that great riding me. For being large she had fairly small breasts with large nipples that I played with during this stage. I was starting to get a splitting headache when she finally wanted me to fuck her doggy style. I obliged and positioned myself behind her and entered, taking in the amazing view of her ass and pussy from that angle. I powered through my headache until I came inside her and the condom while she was rubbing her clit.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She got us some water and we laid and hung out in bed for a while until I made an excuse to leave. We sexted a bit afterward and planned to hookup again but she went away for a week and came back with a boyfriend so that never happened. In hindsight I wonder if she just used me to practice for her new guy but i didn’t care either way; it felt good to cum inside someone after my breakup.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

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