Second Date Hookup



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Second Date Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? Three years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Shannon was about 5’9″, a redhead with a pixie cut and a big smile. She was a little on the thicker side, but still in shape. We had gone on one date beforehand, but had not had sex yet. We met online.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went on a date (minigolf, drinks, and dinner), and I suggested heading back to my place to watch a movie. I think we both knew something was probably going to happen, but we didn’t discuss that explicitly.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After we got to my place, I excused myself to go to the bathroom. When I came out, I had planned on putting a movie on, but she had other ideas, she stood in the path between the bathroom and the TV and kissed me with hunger. So we moved to the bedroom. We made out, and the clothes came off. She was a fantastic kisser and I entered her against the wall. There were condoms in the nightstand that she was next to, but we were both too aroused to think of it. I fucked her against the wall kissing her neck and breasts. Her moans increased in intensity before she came. Afterward, we moved to doggy-style, her hands on the bed, and mine on her hips. We fucked in that position, with increasing intensity for a while before she turned over her shoulder and asked me to come for her. I was feeling the alcohol from earlier just enough that I wasn’t quite there, and I told her that. We moved to the end of the bed and switched to missionary. We kept fucking, and she had another orgasm. As she came down from that, she told me against she wanted me to come for her. Without stopping thrusting, I asked if she was on the pill to which she replied, “yes”.  Seconds later, I came hard inside her. We cuddled and kissed, and about 15 minutes afterward, had sex again. This time, she was on top. She rode me slowly, then hard and fast. We both came again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She left to go home after the second time we had sex, and we made plans to get together again. The next day, I felt great, as we had excellent sexual chemistry. We dated casually for about six months afterward and broke it off when she wanted something more serious.

I do sometimes still think about her; it’s easy to miss explosive chemistry like that.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t discuss it. Maybe I mentioned that I’d gone on a date and it had gone well.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Our intense, instant sexual chemistry. We gave each other what we wanted without having to ask.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I found it really hot that we slept together for months afterwards, and never used a condom. Just my body against hers.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m not sure that casual sex has had a positive role in my life in general, but the experience here was entirely positive.

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