What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Marketing
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Having Sex Like It Was the End of the World
How long ago did this hookup happen? Earlier this year
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her on Tinder. She was Indian, nice body, 163 cm, average looking, not stunning. What made her unique was that she comes across very friendly, easy to get along with, and sexually expressive in a low key way. It was the kind of personality that puts a guy at ease. She was very proactive about responding by text and asking nice and thoughtful questions. Everyone gets jaded after trying to date. Meeting someone who seems to like you and makes it easy to arrange a date is like a breath of fresh air. She even suggested meeting up the next day.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The next day was a Saturday. We agreed to meet up for afternoon tea at a place she said she was dying to try. I got there a few minutes early and she was already there, seated at a table, very relaxed and smiling. She was very friendly. Our conversation seemed to pick up from where our text messages left off. Within about 15 minutes of us meeting, she asked me if it was the end of the world, what would I want to do? I was thinking about it and mumbling ideas. While I was still deciding, I asked her what would she want to do? Without hesitation, she said it very matter-of-fact: sex. I was floored by the response, because it was an obviously good answer and I agreed that was what I would want. We started talking about what kind of sex we would want. She said it doesn’t have to be with anyone, she can have sex with herself. Reaching many orgasms was most important. The talk started getting more intimate and I realized this was a hookup date. She talked about how she likes to pleasure herself and what gets her off. She made it so easy for me to open up and share how I like to masturbate. I never had a first date conversation like this before. She was not the joking type, so she sounded authentic and serious, yet light-hearted. We talked about how hard it will be to find a partner if we only had one day before the end of the world. This led to some flirting where I told her she would be the perfect partner, and she said I would be as well. I could barely control my excitement at this point. I said let’s imagine it’s the end of the world. Shall we go to my place? I was a bit nervous that she would turn me down, but she said very calmly: Okay let’s do it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got to my place, we wasted no time getting into bed. She was very uninhibited. She started masturbating herself and showed me what moves she liked. She let me know when she was coming each time. Then I joined in and we both started masturbating. I started fingering inside her pussy while she rubbed her clitoris to orgasm, then we switched with her finger fucking herself while I rubbed her clitoris. All the time, she was telling me what to do to bring her off. Then she started sucking my cock while tickling my balls and my perineum. The sensations were mind blowing. We were constantly communicating, telling each other what moves feel good and what to try next. Her easy going, sex-friendly attitude made it so easy to talk. I finally penetrated her in a frontal position so we could both watch me enter her. I fucked her steadily while she rubbed her clitoris to an orgasm. Then I pulled out flipped her around and continued fucking doggy style. Each time I was about to cum, I pulled out and we switched positions. I found doing this led me to last longer and to find positions where I could fuck her faster and harder. After I orgasmed, she asked me to keep pleasuring her until I was hard and ready for penetration again. She was insatiable for orgasms! We were having sex all over the place. I sat on my desk chair while she sat on my cock while I rode the chair and she rode me. She did a downward dog yoga position and I penetrated her from behind. She rode me in the cowgirl position. Every time I had an orgasm, we didn’t stop. We just kept pleasuring her to orgasms until I was hard again and ready to continue fucking. By late evening I was quite spent and very satisfied. I offered her stay the night, but she said she was okay, and then she left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was very satisfied with that hookup. I never had marathon sex like that. I learned how to be a good partner for her and I learned how to give her orgasms. It gave me more sexual self-confidence. The lengthy sexual connection we had over several hours of nonstop sex also created some emotional attachment to her. I wanted to get together again, obviously for the sex, but also perhaps for something more. But she never replied back to me since then.
When I think back to everything that happened, I realized that she was very experienced sexually. She targeted me as the kind of guy that can fall for her charms and give her what she wanted. I don’t regret at all what happened. It was hugely satisfying. But I was also a bit hurt and angry realizing that she was just going through guys to get herself off. It’s for the better that she never got back to me.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just this website
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We fucked like it was the end of the world.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was probably on a cock bender, just looking for guys to hook up with.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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