by Srishti Kumar
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Australia
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Cop
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a sexy, athletic young male named Kashmiri. I thought he was very handsome.I was very attracted to the way he talked, but I didn’t think something like this would ever happen. We had talked only briefly online and I was in a relationship at the time. This hook-up happened when I broke up with my ex.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We planned a weekend trip in Goa. We did not plan the hookup. We just wanted to travel together and see Goa. Once we got there and met – the sexual chemistry just went sky high and we knew that it was going to happen. There was a lot of chemistry and tension between us that we didn’t accept nor deny. Once we met, we touched and it just grew more. Once we got to the hotel we couldn’t keep our hands off each other.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We checked into our room and it all just happened right there. He took off my clothes and began kissing me and playing with my boobs simultaneously. It felt amazing. We then proceeded to remove our clothes and had penetrative sex. Did not have oral sex the first time but after that yes. We had 9-10 rounds in that one night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? A little guilty because I had just broken up with my ex. Not so much though, since we went at it again and enjoyed it a lot. Eventually we ended up catching feelings and now we’re dating
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends who all were so happy that I enjoyed it. They then advised me to take things slow
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It led to me finding the most perfect guy and now we’re dating
Also – the best sex ever!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That my parents eventually found out and it caused some drama.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes – before it, my idea on sex was that it had to be with a partner. Now I am more open to having sex with multiple people and even strangers.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is great! It can really help you to understand the difference between love and lust and that sex is a primal need that doesn’t always have to be fulfilled with love. But then again – everyone is different
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great ! A good initiative
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