What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineering
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
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How long ago did this hookup happen? A couple months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We can call her J, although I think I’ve used that pseudonym for a different girl in previous stories. J was Hispanic, with dark, angular features. She had a nice, big butt, and smaller boobs. She was about 5’ 2”, pretty fit, and super cute.
She had recently been hanging around my area on the weekends because of a mutual friend. We used to be classmates in high school but lost touch. We immediately were very flirtatious despite her having a boyfriend. She had a pretty bubbly personality and we always enjoyed hanging out.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We all went out one night in a big group. We were all drinking and she and I ended up dancing at a bar. We were both clearly very sexually aroused. I ended up biting her neck and she immediately turned around and told me we were going back to my place. Who was I to argue?
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We immediately went to my room and started making out. She was taking her clothes off and gave me a lap dance. I asked her what she was into and she said rough sex and giving head. We did 69 for a bit, but she kept moaning and couldn’t concentrate. She gave me head for a bit and it was phenomenal. She took me out of her mouth with an audible “pop” and asked me to fuck her. She laid on her back and I crawled between her legs. I reached above my headboard to grab a condom and slipped inside of her since we were both covered in juices. I was trying to open the condom while she gyrated her hips and moaned beneath me. I finally got it open, put it on and began fucking her. We did missionary and doggy style which she admitted she loved.
I finished in the condom and we went to take a shower. Immediately we started making out and she bent over. I told her I needed to get a condom and she said she was clean and hadn’t hooked up with anyone but her boyfriend in the past year. We also discussed her birth control. I couldn’t help myself and slid into her raw. We fucked for a while, then we got out of the shower and had sex on my bathroom counter. I came in her which caused her to come. We finally dried off and went to bed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fell asleep after. I woke up in the middle of the night and slid inside her from my residual cum. We fucked again and I came in her two more times.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We had great chemistry and cumming inside of her was amazing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She felt guilty because of her boyfriend. He’s very abusive and I told her to leave.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If all parties consent and are safe, why not?
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy hearing about others experiences. It makes sex seem more normal and not something we should hide.
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