What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Electrician
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Promiscuous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Sexiest I Have Ever Felt
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I found this guy on Grindr and he was really good looking with grey hair and well dressed with a nice body. We met at his house and was really excited to meet him as he seemed so turned on at the idea of me coming over.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met on Grindr and was talking for most of the afternoon. I went to his house after work and we both wanted to meet up for some fun. We talked about all the things we wanted to do to each other and it was really turning us on.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I barely got through the front door at his house and his hands were all over me. I was ushered to the stairs and he was on his knees opening my jeans. He roughly pulled them down with my boxers and took me into his mouth. He knew what to do with his mouth and tongue and I was struggling to stand up with the pleasure, my legs were like jelly. He then pulled my jeans and boxers down to my ankles and bent me over and pulled my bum cheeks apart and licked me deep. It felt awesome he loved it too and also pushed his finger inside me. He then went back to my rock hard sucking, licking and slapping himself on his face with me. After a while I came in his mouth and he squeezed everything out I had to offer. It was amazing. He was in a hurry so I did have to leave at this point as he said he didn’t have long. He then went to give me a kiss goodbye but he ended up stripping me off again and passionately kissing me and touching me all over. It was the sexiest I have ever felt as he was so into me. He was also really annoyed he didn’t have enough time so we could go further.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Have’nt spoken to him yet but will be seeing him again soon.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t told anyone as I’m married to a women.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He made me feel sexy. It was as if I was irresistible to him and that he really enjoyed getting me off.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it had to end so soon.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Its bad that I’m cheating on my wife but we don’t do much sexually and there is such a buzz I get from being with a man.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea to share these experiences
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