What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Full-Time Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my first one.
Sleepless One-Night Stand
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Nick is a 21 year old, 6′ white man and has the most defined jaw line, dark brown hair, some facial scruff, and piercing blue eyes. Not to mention he also had defined arms, everything I find extremely attractive in a man. I had met Nick at a kickback with some friends which during one of my closest friends came up to me early in the night and told me one of her good guy friends was dying to be introduced to me. Before I could say anything I took another shot and she was on her way back with him. I was in my own little world and hadn’t noticed anyone in particular looking at me so I was shocked to hear that someone had been eyeing me and was interested in talking to me. The moment we were introduced the sexual attraction and tension was so great it was nearly tangible. As we started talking it built more and more throughout the entire night and at one point, we couldn’t help ourselves and left within 30 minutes of meeting each other.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As we left we stopped at the nearest alley and he pushed me against the wall and we started making out aggressively. As tension rose and hands wandered, I noticed he had a massive erection as I traced my hand over it to tease him. Who knew just making out could have that big of an impact on a man? Before we knew it we were already back at his place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The moment he unlocked the door into his house, he picked me up and pushed me against the wall and we began passionately kissing again. I bit his lip (something I’m into but touchy on whether or not other guys are into it), and it was like a whole other element of aggression came out of him. Within moments I took his shirt off, mine was ripped off out of sheer desire and the inability to wait any longer. We ran upstairs with shirts lying on the floor in order to not be seen by his roommates. Once in his bedroom he picked me up and tossed me onto the bed and immediately took my pants off and began teasing me with some of the most pleasurable oral I have ever had. Feeling his tongue run up and down and trace my clit while he fingered me sent me into over drive and I had to have him. After a few minutes I couldn’t take it any more as I was wrapping my legs around his head and was about to cum, I stopped him and made him trade me. I rode his face as I took all of his 6 1/2 inch thick cock into my mouth. I licked and sucked his balls and as I did so, he bit down (in the best way possible) on my clit out of shock. He ate me until I came and I sucked him until he came into my mouth. No one has ever tasted so good or even made me cum just from oral sex. As soon as I thought he would be too tired for anything else he throws me onto my back and is still hard even after he came. He traces my pussy with the head of his thick hard cock and then finally slowly enters me. I tightened my legs around him and his cock. I ran my fingers down has back, scratching it out of pleasure. After just a few minutes we switch and he fucks me doggy style. He starts slow, with long slow strokes and slowly got faster and faster as he pulled on my hair, rubbed my clit, and asked me how badly I wanted him to cum inside me. Within moments we were both about to climax and came nearly at the same time. We spent the rest of the night tracing each others bodies with our hands and kissing all night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning, (really after a short nap of about 2 hours) we woke up and I noticed he was hard again. We immediately had sex again and he came for the third time. After, he drove me back to my place and we have exchanged few text messages between the two of us in hopes of having another night like that.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone about it yet.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best was feeling the sexual desire the moment we met each other. It was a mutual feeling and look exchanged when we met that we both found each other incredibly sexy and wanted each other.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing was bad at all beyond the fact that it had to end.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing at all.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is a good thing, you learn from it. It’s a learning process figuring what you do and don’t like so why not try it all out? Casual sex is fun and flirty as long as you set boundries like contraception and STD’s before you have sex. Pregnancy and STD’s and STI’s are very real and should be talked about, if you’re comfortable enough to have sex with this person, you’re comfortable enough to have the conversation. There is zero pressure to feel like you have to do something and there aren’t expectations, it is what you make of it during casual sex. I think most people shed a negative light on it because of the older generations but as a whole I think my generation is more accepting of it. I would like to see more people be accepting of casual sex rather than think of it as slutty. I also would like to see the conversation change, instead of being timid when talking about STD’s and contraception, be confident. Sex is fun until you’re pregnant with an unplanned pregnancy or have to deal with STD’s or STI’s.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love the Casual Sex Project, I think it’s a great way to see how other people are having casual sex and to comfort others in knowing they aren’t the only ones doing it if they aren’t accepted by their friends or family for having casual sex.
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