What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 15
A Spicy Taste of India
How long ago did this hookup happen? a week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her on Tinder. I was just ending a 6 weeks backpacking holiday in India, spending the last few days at a friends house in Bangalore. We matched, I told her I don’t have much time and asked her pretty much right away, if she wanted to meet up. She suggested a very nice local brewery for the next day in the evening. She’s Indian, but has worked in London for 4 years, two years older than me and a very attractive woman. We had very good conversation over a couple of hours until I had plans to meet my other friend for dinner, so I very sadly had to call it a night. Besides that, we had no place to go to anyways since I didn’t wanted to bring her to my friends house and she had roommates and didn’t want to bring me. While she was waiting for her Uber we were making out in front of the brewery. We agreed to text the next day and see, if we can make it somehow “happen”.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well, I booked a room close to her place for the next night. We were out again, she was a lot of effort and in between I was not sure, I was able to get her into bed, but well, she came to the hotel room with me. I very much planned it, I really wanted to have sex with this beautiful indian woman, so I pretty much instigated everything.
She was really hard to read and didn’t make a move by herself, so I went step by step, by getting close to her, cuddling her, touching and caressing her face, etc. finding my way down her body, fastening her breath and feeling it was time to undress.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She let me do anything to her without saying anything. I kissed her beautiful tits and she got really hard nipples. I went down on her for quite a while until I put on a condom and we had sex. It felt great. She was not very active but I don’t know, I had a fun looking at her and seeing her silently enjoying what I was doing to her. We did missionary, doggy and her on top, which surprised me. In the morning we had sex again and after breakfast once more before checking out of the room
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I needed to pack my stuff, get to the airport and leave India.
We connected on Facebook.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My indian friend knew I was staying somewhere else for the night, but I shared no further details.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex with a beautiful, indian woman.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It ended.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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