Steam Had To Go Out

by Ol

Gender: Male
Age: 30
Race/ethnicity: mixed white/mid-eastern
Current location: Prague
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: research assistant in a company
Relationship status: married
Religious affiliation: jewish by family
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? not more than 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Steam Had To Go Out

How long ago did this hookup happen? last weekend

How would you best classify this hookup? the shortest stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a waitress in a pub. Blond haired. Not really slim but far from obesity, nice legs, little butty.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Short after marriage, half a year ago, my wife went pregnant. She asked me to discontinue our sexual activities, not to hurt the child. I agreed fully in the beginnings but by the time, I started lacking sex a lot. I was considering the paid sex alternatives, or to have a mistress but I always ended up assuming it wouldn’t be nice from me to my wife. Sometimes, when I was drunk somewhere, I approached some women, hoping in the sex end maybe, but it had always been far from fulfilling. 
What I describe here had never been planned nor instigated a lot as I have seen it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went for a regular friday night couple of beers with a friend of mine in a newly opened pub. We discussed women, football and politics (as we say). We were having a good fun and couple of beers above our standards. I started liking a lot one of waitresses who served us. By the time I went to the toilet. Toilet were in a small corridor outside the saloon. On the opposite side of corridor, there was some unmarked door, something like a staff room I suppose. When I came back from the men, I came across the waitress  I liked in the corridor coming from the unmarked door. 

I smiled to her, she smiled to me back, I touched her, she touched me back, I tried to hug her, she stepped back, but we somewhat ended up kissing. I pushed her back to the men’s room, into the cabin. I locked the cabin, lifted her skirt, put her panties aside, put my trousers down, shortly fingerjobbed her and then took her from behind. I came inside her it didn’t take more than 5 minutes total.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did have. I don’t know if she did. Frankly, I didn’t care.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No
condom, no asking, no discussions. I’m about to go to the STI tests next month

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Just a long term lack of sex in marriage I suppose. I know nothing about her motivations.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was stoned. I doubt she was totally sober.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went back to the saloon and I had couple more beers with my friend. I’m pretty confident no one other (my friend included) really noticed. After, I went back home to my wife.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To nobody.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I think it was mutually consensual. Frankly, I’m not confident at all how she took it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yes I do. I’m generally against cheating both I’m generally against one-sided sex. This one fitted both, I’m afraid.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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