What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >70
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Streets of Philadelphia
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Luke online. He was somewhat on the taller side, and his look can best be described as hipster, which isn’t normally my “type.” I was in Philadelphia, alone, waiting for family to arrive before we went to New Jersey to visit more family.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was looking for a one night stand, just wanted to get off. I went over to his place; we drank a few beers, made out and watched The Runaways. We really connected, and we both instigated it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was very passionate; I have been known to be somewhat of an aggressive-passionate lover myself, however, I had never been with someone who was just as passionate. It was amazing; mainly oral, touching, mutual masturbation. We connected.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wound up staying the night at his place and took the bus back to my hotel the next morning after we had coffee. I really enjoyed him. We sort of kept in touch for a few weeks, but I returned to the South and we lost contact with each other. Even though I’m happily married now, I sometimes wonder what his life turned out like and what would’ve become of “us” (friends, lovers, steady hookup, etc) had we lived closer together.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I don’t think I ever told anyone.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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