What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a black skinned girl from Kenya, about 25 years old, and she was searching for a sugar daddy. I found her on Tinder.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I bought tickets for her to come over. She lives in England. I met her at the Airport in Amsterdam. I picked her up and we travelled with my car for about one hour to a hotel. At the hotel, we booked a room and ordered room service as dinner.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After dinner, she went to lay on the bed. I asked her to lay on her stomach, and I started a slow massage. I rubbed her back, legs, and between her legs. I sensed with my fingers she was moist. I put a condom on and started to enter her slowly. When she was accustomed to my size she wildly started to push back with her hips. I was hard as a rock and finished inside her. I can still recall how she felt inside. After I pushed back and left her pussy it appeared the condom had broken.
We did have some more dinner, then decided to fuck again. I rubbed against her pussy, which appeared to be soaked. I pushed my head against her pussy and she pushed her hips against it so it entered without any problem. We did not use any protection anymore and fucked bare during a long time like rabbits in missionary style. I put her legs around my hips. Again I unloaded inside her and could smell my cum.
I asked her about her birth control. She assured me she did have an implant. Then we proceeded to fuck some more times. When we woke up in the morning I pushed my hard-on against her butt. She pushed back and I entered her pussy easily from behind while I touched her breasts. For the last time, I spurred my cum as deep in her as I could. She was dripping wet.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We did have a discussion about how much she wanted to be paid because she opted for a sugar daddy arrangement. I paid her 200 euro’s for the night, which she took as an insult. I brought her back to the airport in akward silence. We did not talk anymore.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex without any protection with somebody I did not know before.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The akwardness after she asked to be paid.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? not al all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? When more people are into casual sex the world will be more relaxed.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very good initiative, nice to read all those different experiences.
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