What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Harare
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? executive
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She looked in her early thirties, black, well-built body, flattish tummy with medium breasts and a large bum, average face.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Was literally just driving through the city on my way to visit friends with no intention of hooking up that day. However, I have a high sex drive which causes me to have a wondering eye. I saw a middle-aged woman with a very attractive body. I’m Africa we appreciate a woman’s behind very much and she had a big, well-rounded one. I looked once, twice, three times and as I was staring I noticed her look back as she acknowledged my interest in her by giving a half smile. This was enough for me to pull over and ask if she needs a lift somewhere. She laughed acted a little surprised at my offer but happily obliged and agreed for me to take her to the taxi rank close by. We chatted on the way there as I started to openly flirt and she liked it and flirted back. I dropped her off and we exchanged numbers. I fully planned to follow up on the number by flirting via WhatsApp and maybe hooking up in the weeks to follow. I left her and proceeded about my day not expecting to hear from her in a whilst. Later in the day after lunch with my friends, I get a call from a number that I saved her under earlier. I was a bit surprised but I went along with it and we chatted over the phone for a whilst. I then asked her if she wants to meet up and she said yes. That’s when I knew I was going to duck that very same day. I went to the store to buy wine and got a stash of weed for the occasion. Picked her up from her mother’s house where she stayed and we had a conversation in the car. I asked her where she wants to go and she laughed and said she had no idea. She shared with me that she has a child and that the child’s father is out of the country for employment reasons. So she was lonely and very horny. I decided to be aggressive and suggested we hang out at a lodge. She acted a bit shy but agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We proceeded to a nearby lodge which was pretty decent, it was spacious had a shower with hot water TV etc. We exchanged stories and life stuff whilst drinking wine and smoking weed. We then undressed and admired each other’s naked bodies. She commented on the large size of my cock which always turns me on and I marveled at her large firm ass. I was also pleasantly greeted with a completely shaven pussy which I like as well. She began sucking my cock for about 20 mins and then started fucking. I finished off with my favorite position on the floor, bent her over and piledrived her in the bulldog position till I came. We took a shower together after and fucked again in the shower. I took her back home after.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Was never planning on seeing her again and never will.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The randomness of it
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Will give me good memories when I’m old
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Men are mostly driven by ego I believe. Moments like these fuel my ego. It’s a good feeling.
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