What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Kingston, Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Student/Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Zero
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was tall, he pulled off the nerdy look quite well, which I wasn’t attracted to at all until I saw him naked with his athletic body.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went to school together. I was struggling in a calculus class and he tutored me through a volunteer program.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I had gone for my third study session with him. He was a nerdy math tutor and was a bit on the boring side. We took a coffee break and he surprisingly asked if he could see me outside of study group, maybe grab a coffee with him sometime. I said yes, even though I wasn’t really attracted to him.
As he was walking me out of the building, he leaned in for a kiss. Surprisingly, he was a good kisser. I kissed him back. After a few seconds I told him I had to go, so I gave him one last kiss and left.
Once I got back to my room, he started texting me, asking if we could hang out that night. I told him I was tired but he insisted on seeing me, so I invited him over.
Within 10 minutes he was at my door, he lead me straight to my bedroom to which I said I want to take it slow. He kissed me a little and respected my boundaries. We made out on the couch for a bit until he started slipping his hands down my pants. I was shy, but I let him. He asked if he could unzip my pants, I told him yes, just hoping he would maybe finger me or go down on me. He took both my panties and pants off, exposing my pussy. I hadn’t shaved for a while, and he was the first guy to see my naked pussy for quite a while. He started to go down on me. His tongue knew what it was doing and he was trying to keep everything neat. He was a light breather too which I kind of liked. He kept on licking me for like 15 minutes. Eventually he put himself upon me, he somehow took his pants off without me noticing. I was quite wet from him going down on me. I wasn’t on birth control, so I asked him if he had a condom, and he answered no, so I told him to let me know when he is going to cum and pull out.
He started thrusting, it was very deep and short thrusts. I loved the feeling of his cock deep inside me. He whispered into my ear that he had wanted to fuck me for weeks now. And that he was happy to get to do it.
He kept fucking me in missionary and asked me to rub myself. I did as asked and I orgasmed very quickly. He could tell I was orgasming and started to really slam into me. I loved it. He made me feel wanted. I told him I needed him. He told me to keep rubbing myself, and I obliged, I started to feel another orgasm coming on, and he told me he was going to cum. I told him to stay in me so I could greedily cum once more, as I was orgasming, his breathing changed and I could feel his cock starting to spasm inside me. This was the first time I’d had unprotected sex, let alone have a guy cum inside me. I kissed him and told him I was very happy. I felt like he marked me as his.
He laid down on the bed next to me and had a concerned look on his face as he asked me if I was on birth control, to which I said I wasn’t. He smiled and asked what my plans were. I told him I would take care of an abortion if I got pregnant. He told me whatever I want to do, he would be supportive of my decision.
We laid down cuddling as he started to get hard again. I figured we had already had sex once, we may as well do it again. This time he didn’t last nearly as long, and without asking, came inside me again.
We kissed a bit. He asked me what my plans were for the rest of the night, I had a class early the next morning so I actually did want to go to sleep. We mutually decided he should go home. I got up and walked him to the door of my apartment, his cum gushing down my leg as I got up. We kissed once more at the door and he left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We did hookup once more. I secretly hoped to be pregnant with his child but got my period as usual.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. She thought it was hot but scorned me for not using any form of contraceptive.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was unexpected and i loved feeling his cum in me. I loved thinking I might be pregnant with his child.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I was stupid about risking getting pregnant. I probably would have aborted, but it was still a bit stupid and selfish of both he and I.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I believe everyone should have some casual sex before marriage. It helps you understand your relationship priorities.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s fantastic.
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