What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Brasil
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? N/A
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around a hundred
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She had beautiful blond hair. She was tall, young, and athletic with a gorgeous body. She had the brightest blue eyes. We just met that night at a reception in the community center I was volunteering at. We had a few interesting conversations about school, travels, and life. We then went for a short walk outside to appreciate the full moon. We enjoyed each other’s company. I was really excited about meeting this pretty Swiss woman and being close to her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As we sat talking outside, I decided I wanted to get even closer to her. I asked her if she wanted to go into the other building, where I knew there were some extra matrasses. Nobody was in there, thankfully. She seemed just as excited about “getting closer” as I did.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
We both felt very connected in that moment. Neither of us had ever felt so close to somebody we had just met, but clearly, we were a good match. She mentioned having some past sexual traumas from her childhood, especially an anxiety about being naked in front of someone else. I tried my best to comfort her. I told her immediately that we could do whatever she is comfortable with and could stop at any moment. This made her feel a lot more comfortable. She scooted in closer and we began to make out. Slowly, we started to feel each other and I could tell how excited she was getting. She took my shirt off and I felt beneath her bra. She took her bra off I began to suck her nipples. Then, she told me to take all of her clothes off. She clearly wanted this as much as I did. The sexual energy between us was amazing. He stared at her beautiful body before feeling more of it.
I told her that I really wanted to have sex with her. To my surprise, she gladly agreed. She said she wanted it really badly too, but only if we used protection. Thankfully, I had a condom in my pocket. I sucked on her nipples more and we made out. I took out the condom and she put it on me. I could see how wet her pussy was. I leaned in and began to play with her clit, using my fingers and tongue. Finally, I decided it was time and stuck my cock into her. I thrust in and out while she moaned with pleasure. I could feel her pussy throbbing around me. I put extra pressure on her clit and she loved it. I could tell she was really in the moment and totally consumed by the pleasure of it all. Fucking her was like a dream. Every touch and move gave us an amazing sensation. As I pushed into her deeper she went wild, screaming with pleasure. Eventually, I came while still fucking her. She also came soon after that. When we had finished, we laid next to each other and slept for about ten minutes. After, we talked for a bit and decided to call it a night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to my bed and slept until sunrise. Later in the day, I saw her walking towards her car. I caught up with her and we chatted for a bit. We hugged goodbye. I told her I hope we can meet again one day and continue our amazing experience.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just a few close friends, they were happy for me
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The whole experience
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The experience made me feel more confident. I realized that sex can often be useful in helping people heal from their traumas, and I hope I was able to help her. Casual Sex can be amazing when people trust and respect each other.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I want experiences like this.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that casual sex can be amazing when both people agree to it. I wish that society was more accepting of it, I think everyone would be a lot happier.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is awesome!
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