What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? A month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her through work. We worked in the same group but on different projects. She wasn’t what I would describe as chubby but she wasn’t thin either. She had medium length dark brown hair, fair skin, and large breasts. She also wore glasses. She was a little bit nerdy, I would say. I had known her for about a year through work and such. We had gone to happy hour and other work events together. She was more outgoing than me and was very flirtatious.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At a work happy hour, after a few drinks, the conversation had turned sexual. Just some flirtatious banter. People joking around about various sexual things. The topic of strap-ons came up. She talked about how she had always wanted to use one on a guy.
Most of the guys there openly said they would never do that with a woman but I didn’t say anything at first. Later on, I privately asked her if she had always wanted to fuck a guy and why she hadn’t. She said she’d never found a guy that was willing. I told her I was. That piqued her interest. A few days later she showed me a strap-on she wanted to order and she asked me if she should order it. I told her yes. A few days after she got it she invited me over to show me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At first, it was very awkward. We were both nervous I think. We had a few drinks and talked nervously. Then, at one point she excused herself, and a few minutes later she came back with the strap-on on. She asked me what I thought and I told her I liked it. Then she told me to get on my knees and I sucked her cock.
I felt quite odd on my knees with a cock in my mouth like that. I can’t really describe how it made me feel. I think I felt kind of powerless when she put her hand on the back of my head. After that, we went to the bedroom. She lubed me up and bent me over the edge of the bed and fucked me. It was awkward and painful at first but after I relaxed it got much better. She fucked me good. The main thing I remember is her hands on my hips and making these sounds with my face buried in the sheets. It was a very overwhelming feeling. She grunted and fucked me hard. She was obviously into it very much. Later on, she flipped me over onto my back and she fucked me with her on top and my legs up over her shoulders. She was very intense, especially having to look up and see her face. Yes, she was a good lover.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt embarrassed the next day. I was worried she was going to go to work and tell everybody how she had fucked me. I am very attracted to her now. I see her as this highly sexual person. I want it again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
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