Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: State Tested Nursing Assistant
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Tall and Quick
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an acquaintance
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was Indian and 6 foot 8 inches tall, thin but muscular, dark brown eyes and short black hair. He had an amazing smile, which is why I was so attracted to him (that and how tall he was). He dated one of my distant friends that I hadn’t spoken to in years and we met through another mutual friend who was helping me get over my ex. He lived over three hours away from me so we were only able to talk and text for a week until my friend, her boyfriend and I made a trip to hang out. I thought he was sexy and sweet and was looking forward to spending time with him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hung out at his apartment and after eating dinner and watching a movie my friend and her boyfriend left so we could be alone. At first it was awkward because we didn’t know each other that well but the longer we talked the more comfortable I became. We were on his couch at first but after kissing for a while, I initiated by taking off his shirt, then he got off the couch and pulled my hand to take me to his room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I walked into his crisp clean room I was surprised at how amazing it smelled. His bed was huge, obviously since he was so tall, and I felt so small playing in it. After touching each other all over and kissing for a while he took off my shirt and pants and I took off the rest of his clothes. His penis was crooked which I thought was really weird at first but later realized it felt different but good. He tried getting me to give him oral but honestly I don’t like giving it or receiving it. I thought it was great sex. I did not have an orgasm but I rarely did before I turned 21. He did finish and I remember he grunted really loudly when it was happening, I had never heard anything like it. He was really sweet after and we cuddled for a while until we fell asleep. Later that night he woke me up with kisses and a massage and we had sex again. The next morning when I left I knew I would probably never see him again. We talked for a week or so until I decided to get back with my ex.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom and I was on the pill. We didn’t talk about STIs. I did get checked two months later though and was clean.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I recently broke up with a long term boyfriend and was looking for someone to have fun with. I thought he was attractive and wouldn’t treat me badly.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I drank a Mike’s Hard Lemonade and he drank a beer.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both knew going in it wasn’t going to turn into a relationship. If anything, we were planning on being fuck buddies but it didn’t turn out that way. Now when I think of him I still smile. It was great sex and it was a great experience that I’m glad happened.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few of my close friends. They were not surprised and thought I deserved to have fun.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes it was consensual on both parts.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was how handsome and sweet this guy was. The worst thing is that I didn’t have an orgasm.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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