What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Communications
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was in a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend. However, she was casually dating a colleague of mine as well. She was pretty, smart, and cute with average boobs and a nice ass. We were good friends and usually talked about sexual topics but were never involved. Since we were in the same office, we partied a lot but no hookup ever happened before.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As usual, we had a night of heavy drinking and smoked up after everyone left. I got into her bed since I was too high to go back home. After some time, when she got under the covers, and I realized that she was not wearing any shorts under her long night tee. We talked about a lot of sexual stuff, like how intimate I am with my current girlfriend and my fantasies. At some point, I realized that my dick was hard and brushing against her. She was also purposefully rubbing her ass against it. Suddenly she put her hand inside my underwear and grabbed my dick.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as she grabbed it, we had an intense liplock and we started making out. We undressed each other and I ended up sucking her breasts and licked pussy. Throughout that night we explored each other’s bodies and I ended up cumming on her butt. She blew me twice that night and once more the next morning after we woke up. It was a very satisfying experience for me since it was unplanned.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We acted normally the other day and never talked about it since both of us were mature enough to understand that it was a one-time thing and it should end there.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only told one of my good friends and I am glad she didn’t judge me for this encounter.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The excitement of lying down in the same bed with your friend and sharing your fantasies.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I think the people who do it should think of the consequences in advance and not make a big deal out of it once it is over.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? None.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Indian society has a long way to go to accept casual sex because sex is still not considered a popular topic of discussion in our country.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a nice platform for Indian people to come forward and share their experience.
You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!