The Bar Guys



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 65
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Retired nurse, Runs a small Business,
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Have had sexual encounters with men and women at same time, prefer White men only, with big cocks
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22 or 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

The Bar Guys

How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was about 6′ tall, with a nice fit body, dark hair combed back, dark brown eyes clean shaven, very soft lips, and a tan complexion, He had a good sense of humor and seemed very respectful. Two of my girlfriends and I had gone out for girls night out. We all agreed to go to a bar that none of us had ever been to. When we got there, we got a booth close to the bar, and had a good view of the entire place. There were plenty of guys there and most were very good-looking. Most of them just were not our type: rude, too drunk, or way too forward. I walked up to the bar to get us drinks and met a guy named Paul. He had two friends with him, Doug and Tony. Paul asked if they could come over and sit with us. I told him, “Sure, but only if they are as nice and good-looking as you.” He said, “They’re great guys! We;re all roommates and go to school together. I asked how old they were and Paul told me was the youngest at 20 years old. I got my drinks, went back to my friends, and told the girls what luck I had. A few seconds later, the guys come walking up and immediately my friends had made their choices. Carol told Doug to come sit by her, Carol being a little bolder than the rest of us. Tony sat by Jennifer and we all talked while we drank. Paul wanted to dance so I followed him to the dance floor. When we danced, it was the first time he kissed me. He cupped my breast when we were close enough, rubbing his body against mine and squeezing my pussy a couple times. When we returned to the table, the girls said that Tony and Doug had invited us back to their place for drinks.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The place was nice. It was on the lake, and it was a house that they were renting from Tony’s parents. We looked around and saw that they had a very nice hot tub out back by the lake on a floating dock with outside showers, We turned on some music and got drinks, and after about four drinks, Carol pulled off her top, lounging in just her bra. Jen followed suit but took her jeans off as well. Tony and Doug put on shorts and they all ended up in the hot tub. Paul pulled me aside and asked if I would like to go somewhere a bit more private. I told him I would like that, and he took me by the hand and led me to the back bedroom. I sat down on the bed when I heard the water running and heard Paul tell me to come in. When I walked in, I saw Paul sitting in a large Jacuzzi with bubbles all around him. I told him it wasn’t fair that I didn’t get to see him get in the water, but now I had to get naked in front of him. He stood up with all the water and bubbles running over his body, from his nice firm chest leading to his stomach and down his large cock that hung down to the middle of his thigh. He said, “Now, is this what you wanted?” I started undressing as he watched me. I have large breasts, large nipples, and dark areolas. He told me my body was beautiful and I could see his cock getting bigger by the second. I reached out and grabbed his cock to pull myself into the tub, joking that it was good to have a safety bar for us older gals to hold on to. We both sat down in the hot water with the jets hitting in all the right spots. He leaned forward and started kissing me and massaging my breast, as I slowly stroked his cock. I got some oil and poured it on his cock and started stroking it with both hands. He kept kissing me and pinching my nipples. We played with each other for awhile and enjoyed the hot water and bubbles,

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? His cock kept getting harder as I stroked it. He pulled me to him, while he sat on the side of the Jacuzzi and put his hand on the back of my head. He asked me to suck his cock so I started licking his balls while I stroked his long hard shaft. Then I licked underneath, slowly going up to his meaty head. I had a hard time getting my mouth over the head. He moaned and said, “Oh my god, that feels so good.” I managed to go just past the thick rim of his cock head, and I sucked and ran my tongue around his head, stroking his long shaft with one hand, massaging his big soft balls with the other. He tried fucking my mouth but his cock was to big to get much movement. I stopped and asked him to fuck me with that big cock of his. He told me to lay up on the side of the tub and that he wanted to taste my pussy first. I laid back on the side of the tub with both legs spread wide apart. It was a sunken Jacuzzi so we had plenty of room to lay on. He ran his hands from my breast, down my stomach, and inside of my thighs, his tongue following his hands. He licked his way to my pussy, parting it with his tongue and teasing my clit by running his tongue around it and the licking on the inside of my lips. He pushed one, then two, then three fingers inside me and rubbed my G-Spot with all three fingers, licking my clit to the speed and motion of his fingers on my G-Spot. I jerked back and fourth, and up and down, frantically pulling his head into my grinding pussy. My body jerked and twitched violently, and then he got up, stroking his enormous cock. He shoved his cock in my pussy about 3 inches and pulled out, as I gave a yelp and moaned out with pleasure. Then he pushed it back in, and just kept pushing until his balls hit my ass. Then he started pumping my cunt like a mad man, like he had never had pussy before, pulling my hair and fucking me hard and fast. Then he slowed down and made long slow deep strokes as he started making his hips go lower and shoving his cock upward like he was trying to pick me up with it. He turned me over and fucked me from behind. He made me spread my knees wide, bringing my pussy lower as he pumped my cunt harder and harder. He sped up with his pumping and I could feel him tensing up and about to blow, so I turned around and took his load in my mouth. I stroked his cock slow and tight pulling every drop of cum out of his monster cock. Then we sat back and let the jets massage our bodies as we sipped on our drinks.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was fine, it was just a one time fuck

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The other girl friends I was with

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It was more common in my younger years.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a good outlet.

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