The Disappointing Guy



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Mexico City
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Fucked up
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? To be honest can’t remember, they are between 20-50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

The Disappointing Guy

How long ago did this hookup happen? Like a week or so

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well he was almost taller than me; I’m 6’2 and he was 6, he had a geeky look that I wasn’t aware of, since I met him on Grindr and his profile picture he looked pretty masculine but ended up being queer. I really feel like hooking up with him again since his cock was the most amazing I have ever had, but his looks made me not want to.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was pretty horny that day to be honest, I was looking to be fucked so it didn’t have any planning, just me messaging some guys to see which one was up for it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? What happened was one of the more disappointing hook ups I had since I moved here, I invited him over and realized how he looked so I was kinda scared and he ended being a total disappointment, but as soon as he undressed I was mesmerized.  I’m telling you, this geeky guy had the most beautiful/delicious cock I’ve ever had; his 7 plus inches (if uncut) dick was marvelous to suck.  He started fingering my ass so I’d be easy to fuck but guess what? No condoms, since I mostly bottom and have this thought of whoever the guy fucking me is, he should have to pay for everything (so I never have condoms or lube or anything).  He was shocked that I hadn’t had any of this, as he tried to talk me into bareback (something I felt stoked to consider).  I decided no fucking tonight so we ended up jerking off and coming on each other’s bodies.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt pretty horny.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Cause I didn’t get fucked.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The size of his cock.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not getting fucked.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think hooking up is healthy and everyone does it.

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