Race/ethnicity: Mixed white
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Guy in a Cast
How long ago did this hookup happen? Recently
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on Tinder a few days before. He was Parisian, slim and toned with dark hair. He was really young, 22 or so and still a student. But he was from a very rich family. His leg was broken and in a cast.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One night I had planned on going out, but my friend cancelled on me. This guy I had given my number to on Tinder then texted me, asking what I was doing. I told him and he asked me to come to his place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At first we only chatted, I shared a sad story and he proceeded to kiss me to console me (weird but hey). His leg was broken so I sat on his lap, just kissing at first. We moved to the bedroom (he was quite immobile), he tried to give me oral, but he was way to rough. So I stopped that. I told him to lie down and said I didn’t want to give him head. I sat on him and we had some PIV ‘penis-in-vagina] sex, his penis was an average size. He looked at me in awe, like I was a being he had never seen before. He was completely mesmerised, probably by my age and my boobs. He came really quickly, maybe 3 minutes. He felt a bit bad and wanted to continue fingering me, but I said that would be alright and I wanted to sleep.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Pill and condom
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Bored and to have sex
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Just a bottle of french red wine
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were sleeping, when his housemates came back from a night out. One entered his room and called all the others. They asked him in french how he managed to pull with a broken leg sitting at home, while they had gone out and been unsuccessful.
I left in the morning feeling good and that this was a funny hook up story. Sex wasn’t good enough, so I knew I didn’t want to see him again. He texted me a few times trying to arrange another hook up.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends, they thought it was hilarious
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. Sex wasn’t good, but it was still sex with a good-looking guy and funny on top of that
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: that he had a broken leg
Worst: that he wasn’t that good
It hasn’t changed anything
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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