Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Religious affiliation: The source
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Lesbian
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
The GYM hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup? Booty-call
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She trained at the gym I was working at. She was athletic built kind of close to fitness. She was attractive, a girl I wanted to get down with.
I started approaching her by sending her vibes such as, staring at her from time to time, smiling, until we kind of started talking which I didn’t want to. I was very focused on what I wanted which was mainly to get down on each other… the less we talk… the better…
So we met at the gym.
We had some conversations and I wasn’t feeling her… She was boring to me. She had zero personality. I just wanted to bang her c’mon!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I tried a couple times to make her come to my house after the gym. She didn’t accepted. I was very obvious that I wanted something PHYSICAL! She wasn’t down so I backed off.
Then one day she texted me like she was down for it (it took her like several weeks for this), like she wanted to hook up so I called her and I was suppose to meet her to go to her house, right? So I take time, dress up, get ready for it only to find out the minute before leaving the house – when I call her to let her know I was on my way – that she made up an idiotic lame ass excuse I didn’t want to hear about so I hung up and deleted her phone.
She somehow got this non-creative idea to be friends with my best friend who was at the time, my roommate, oh dear lord! I knew where that was going… He brought her home one day (some months later after that one time we were supposed to meet up).
I was in my room, sleeping, my roommate woke me up telling me that she was here and she was down for it like really now. Then somehow she got in the room too trying to wake me up. They left. After some minutes of thought I decided to do it, I wanted to bang her in the first place. Got out of the room and hugged her right away in a flirty way.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My roommate left to take a shower so we were both alone, I decided to smoke a joint and she was down for it. I knew it was gonna be easier for me to get her in that state of mind. After smoking it, I started getting closer, ’til we were both really close and started making out… in a very passionate and horny way.
We were in the living room at that moment, then after exchanging some saliva she decided it was time to go to the room.
We did almost everything since we were both high then everything was very smooth, it was reciprocated. We were in action for several hours. I went down on her, she went down on me, on top, bottom, on my back, on her back.. but we didn’t use sex toys although I had them but I was kind of lazy to get up and get them, it was fine to just keep doing what we were doing… She had several orgasms.. I didn’t, I enjoyed it though, everything we did, it was a fun night. I have to be mentally/emotionally and even spiritually connected to the person to have an orgasm (that was my insight after the whole thing).
She was not a good lover, I was! I made her breakfast, I gave her oral sex after that… but I wasn’t expecting much from this girl.
Since she was friends with my roommate then.. she stayed the next day “hanging” with us… and at some point I was like… dang girl like really… you still here? (in my head of course).
To me the whole thing was over the next morning. I guess she got hooked or something. It ended with her hanging out with my roommate the next couple of days and weeks until I kinda blocked her off, I didn’t want to be friends, at least not right away. I needed my space, she was there but not for me, she was with my roommate but she still had some sort of thought that we were gonna get down again. And of course, that didn’t happen cuz to me, it was meant to be a one night stand… It was fine that she got the idea after me kinda rejecting her by not talking to her or even wanting to be in the house when she was.. so it was pretty obvious!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Well… She worked at a lab so I knew she was gonna be one of those clean freaks about hygiene so I wasn’t concerned about getting any weird infections and by her behaviour she wasn’t as wild as I thought.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? The whole gym fantasy, hooking up with someone you meet at the gym. She was physically attractive, nice legs, abs.. she was very decent. But not as flexible as me though.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, just a joint!
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well… I wasn’t into her at all. It was all physical for me, so I didn’t care for most part. I guess she liked me a bit more than I thought.
I didn’t want to be friends with her at the moment the days after we hooked up. I needed my space and her being friends and hanging with my roommate wasn’t working for me.
I am not living with my roommate anymore nor the city where she lives at so I could care less.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I guess almost everyone i hung out while living with my roommate.
Not many people. Probably like less than 12. Cuz she was fun, like fun for a night. It was all night.
Their reaction was both positive and negative. I don’t really care what they think it’s what I wanted to do in the first place. A girl’s got needs, haha.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, definetely. I believe we both enjoyed it. I guess one of us did more and I didn’t have an orgasm and didn’t get hooked so…
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nah. It was fun for a fun night.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Several hours of pleasure.
The worst was having her “hang out” out with us (roommate and others) the next morning and the day after that.. and the weeks after that…
Yeah, I totally think differently, I really enjoy hooking up, I can be the best lover ever… now the difficult part is to find someone like that too, haha.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I didn’t say anything to her I just avoided talking, seeing her until she understood…
I was VERY CLEAR with what I wanted.
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