What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Auckland
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? In a long-term relationship with a guy whilst having several female FWBs in a few countries I often visit for work.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 31
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
The Malaysian Air Crew Girl
How long ago did this hookup happen? Just a short 3 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a young air stewardess from Malaysia and I was on her flight from Kuala Lumpur to Auckland. Returning from a work trip, I sat in business class and she attended to my area.
A sweet young thing, the moment I walked into the plane she greeted me and I knew I had to have her. Early 20’s, fit figure and tall.
We had a conversation when we could, she was curious and she was in luck because fuck, I wanted her very very badly at that point.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When we got to Auckland she had a layover so I picked her up at her hotel and we went for dinner and drinks. When we got drinks I placed my hand on her thighs making her blush and squirm with shyness. It was such a cute moment to behold.
I asked her if she was doing anything later and it turned out she wasn’t, so I invited her over to my place which was just a few blocks away. She nodded so I let her go home with me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got to the living room I got her against the door and we started making out. She was shy so I took the lead. We moved to the couch where I took off her clothing, going down south on her thighs to her wet pussy. It was trim and very well taken care off. She moaned in excitement. She came almost immediately and I got it in my mouth it tasted good.
We made out a while more and I thought perhaps it was time to bring in the strapon. Her eyes went big but she was in it with all 6 inches of it. T’was a good fuck.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had to send her back to her hotel that night itself, we kissed in the car. I watched her walked away and never saw her again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My boyfriend. He didn’t care much, I was sleeping with many women outside our home.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Honestly, she was the best thing to have happened in my life. Not my first Malaysian girl, but my very first Chinese and I adored her so much, I wished for a second time with her.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The fact that she was fresh and curious, there was no reciprocation back. I did the work while she followed instructions. She blocked me on WhatsApp apparently and I never saw her again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, it hasn’t, same old same old.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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