The Second So Much Different From The First

by john dews

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 65
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? consultant
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Second So Much Different From The First

How long ago did this hookup happen? 12

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a petite indonesian girl, very pretty, well dressed, but nothing spectacular. she smelled nice. I had never seen her. I had hooked up twice in tanzania with a tanzanian girl and an australian girl. They were all pretty. The australian girl was the heaviest.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This happened in Jakarta. I went to a hotel to listen to the music. It was a good band and they played nicely. In front of me was a petite indonesian girl, looking nice. as the music played. I took her by her hips and made her dance with me, her back turned to my breast. She must have seen me before, but not now. we started to rub, and she could feel by big hard on, much bigger then normal indonesians’. While we slow danced, my hand went down over her belly, but over her dress. She brought her hand to her back and touched my cock. When the music stopped, I told her that we would leave and go to my room in the hotel. Of course.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I undressed her and she opened my zipper, and performed oral on me. Then I turned her around and undressed and took her from behind, me standing and she on the bed. We had good sex, and she was very happy to have had that big cock! We only talked about sex.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? i felt great, it was the first step to real hook ups. I had at the time an internet girlfriend, and I now knew I would fuck her soon. She was extremely pretty, but married and had an austrialian lover whom she would send away.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fucking, she had a fine cunt.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was nothing bad

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it was stimulating for more

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She was the first of many to come

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is good, and men are as much sluts as women.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!