The Virgin Who Got Addicted to Sex


by Mikaela James

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Hispanic
Current location: Ohio
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Dating
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Virgin Who Got Addicted to Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last fall

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 22, senior in college, and was my RA my Freshman year. 5′ 11 scruff and parted brown hair and so cute.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On opening weekend of college. I was in his room and he leaned in and kissed me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we were kissing he put his hand down my pants and I pushed him away because I was nervous, but I wanted to do it. Later he pulled down his pants and I started sucking his dick and he started fingering me. Then he slowly put it in my pussy unprotected then he finished on my stomach. That’s how I lost my virginity.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? It felt good but was not my first orgasm. He did

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I don’t know

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I fell for him a little bit

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends and my sister

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I lost my virginity

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? In the year since I have slept with 20 guys and I’m not ashamed

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