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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
Tink of something dirty
How long ago did this hookup happen? two weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met in a club. I just had a new beer and cheered to him, then we started talking.
He was about 1,70m, slim, cute brown eyes, his hair under a beanie. Normally I don’t like it when someone wars a cap or whatever when you are inside a building, but his smile made it all up.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were standing in the middle of the club and talked and talked. It was obvious that there was some kind of sexual tension / atrraction between us. Talks got a bit kinky. But suddenly he said “well, to be honest, i have a girlfriend”. So i told him alright, we can stop here or go on, it is his decision. Maybe you think that it is slutty behaviour of me, but I felt that he already was thinking about cheating on her, so I gave it a try. Then he said: “Alright, I will go to toilet, and in this time think of something dirty in your motherlanguage and tell me when I’m back, then we will see”. I was not thinking that he will come back, but he did, just stand in front of me. I said “Ich will deinen Schwanz blasen” which is “I want to suck your dick” and he just grabbed my hand. We were nearly running outside the club.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started making out heavily in the taxi. Hands started rubbing things through the clothes. As soon as we were in his flat we got undressed. He was rock hard. We made out and our hands went their ways on our bodies. I rubbed his dick, he played with my tits. As i was on my period he asked me if we want to try anal. But he didn’t had any lube so I denied. I went down on him, licking his balls, sucking his cock. He came soon in my hand. We cuddled and fell asleep. He woke me up, horny again. So I went down on him again. He especially enjoyed it when was sucking his balls into my mouth, which he had never felt before. Then he turned me around and kneeled over me, pushing his dick into my mouth. He got quite rough, holding my head, pushing his dick fast and deep. But I like it like this and I knew he would stop if I wanted him to. Then he asked me if he can come in my mouth and I said yes, but he decided different, He asked me to suck his balls again, rubbing his dick. Then he came all over my face. He seemed really happy and was sorry that some of his cum got into my eye. But he cleaned me carefully with some paper and kissed me over and over again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were lying for some time on bed, just talking. Really relaxed and comfortable. Then he wanted me to leave as his brother was about to show up and of course he did not want him to see us like this. So I dressed up, he gave my a long hug and said that it was nice to meet me and that was it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no-one
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I’m sorry for his girlfriend.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His happy face. The talks. The aftercare. The taste of his dick.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was a litle bit too less about me.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? self-reflection
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