by Mariolijn
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Amersfoort
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Three guys in one night
How long ago did this hookup happen? last friday
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was on Holiday and I met all of them that day. The first one at the beach (both surfing), the second and the third one clubbing. I was really horny and it was my last day in the Island, my Bff left the day before… I just wanted to do something crazy….
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The surfer was reaaaaly cute, and we flirted for hours at the beach even if I knew he already had a gf at home. Anyway, I kept flirting in my best way, showing a bit off in my bikini. My plan was maybe just to tease him, but he offered me a drink in the house he lived.
The two of them I met in the clubs, it was pretty easy : I’m a good teaser and dancer and dressed up like a slut, they understood what I wanted 🙂
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? With the first guy we drank a beer and three tequila shots, then I started to tease him, and in a few minutes I had his cock in my mouth: i asked for more but he wanted just and only oral because of his gf at home. So i gave my best in it, and he came in my mouth moaning: huge load, I swallowed. The second guy had me on the escape stairs of the club just lifting my short dress, treating me like a slut and pulling my hair: in just a minute he came hard in the condom. I was still horny so I hooked up another guy, a swedish surfer, and after a lot of “dirty plays” in the club, we ended up at my apartment where we had sex for two hours.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I’m still feeling really sorry for the first guy because he wanted to be faithful to his gf; I’m really proud of what I did with the two other guys tough.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, To cheer myself up, Everyone else was/is doing it, Revenge / Getting even
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To some friends: they were really shocked!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? feeling slutty and desirable
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? none. I’ll do it again definitely.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I want to have more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I lost my favorite panties somewhere.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great project
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