by Boxer but not brief
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Marketing
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 67
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Threesome Became a Twosome
How long ago did this hookup happen? About a Month
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve always wanted to try a threesome with a married couple. I was searching Craigslist when I came across a couple that wanted to invite a third.
They were a very erotic couple and they sent me a number of photos of themselves and of Cindy, the wife. After a few days of talking and planning, Cindy and I started texting each other, with out her husband being part of the discussion. She kept sending me videos on Kik, and asked for an intimate photo of me.
I sent her a series of photos of me in a pair of boxer briefs that left little to the imagination. Soon Cindy and I were chatting exclusively. I learned that she had recently had a threesome with her husband and later met the man a week later in a hotel room with out her husband’s knowledge.
It was’t long before I convinced her to meet me in a hotel room with out her husband’s knowledge.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’ve never chatted with someone who was so erotic. She sent me numerous videos of her squirting or her reaching orgasms in less than a minute. She told me that her average session lasted a couple of hours and sometime could go 5 hours if she brought a compliment of toys. I couldn’t wait to fuck her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met for the first time at a hotel, when she knocked on the door. It didn’t take long for me to strip her clothes off. I immediately went down on her and she quickly came twice. When I finally slid inside her, she started cumming over and over. She squirted so many times that the sheets were absolutely soaked.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was very sore because we fucked for over two hours. She was by far the most erotic and sensuous woman I have ever been with. The interesting thing is, you would never know by looking at her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I’ve never been with a woman who enjoyed sex so much
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was older than I anticipate and not as attractive as I thought she would be from her videos
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’ve been a fan of casual sex for a long time
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Finally, I get to tell someone
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