by Jim Gavin
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Leeds, England
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Advocate
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Tinder Afternoon Fun
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Heather” was pretty with lovely smile, a nice figure, large breasts and curly ginger
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had split up with a crazy ex and was missing sex and physical closeness with a woman. I had had a terrible year so far (tragedies and break up) and was looking for some fun and validation.
I had joined Tinder and me and Heather matched. My profile made it clear I was looking for physical closeness, sex, making love and the like.
Heather and I chatted for a few days and were a bit flirty, decided to meet and discussed some logistics. We decided on a local country pub with a view to conversation, possible kissing and, if we sparkled attraction, a trip to mine for NSA fun. Within two hours I was waiting for Heather at the pub. She was a tall slim woman with masses of red hair and large blue eyes. We got drinks and chatted. After a while, we decided to try kissing so stepped into the beer garden. She was nervous but excited at the thought.
Our first kiss was very gentle and slow. The next a little deeper with tongues dancing and my fingertips in her hair.
After rather more kissing I asked if she felt enough sparkles to come back to mine.
You can guess the answer.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? 15 minutes later, we parked our cars at mine and I walked her in.
Shoes of and an awkward moment before I asked to kiss her again. Our lips and tongue meet and our arms enfolded. Soon our hands were beginning to glide over and under clothes. Heather could feel and see my hardon through my jeans. Her breath was a little ragged with nerves and excitement. I kissed her neck and shoulders as I unbuttoned her blouse and undid her bra. She removed my shirt and trousers. I liked the way she looked me over. And her cool touch on my skin
Now it was my turn to unwrap her. Her jeans came away and revealed lace knickers warm with her accent and arousal. Beneath them was a neat ginger bush. I softly kissed and caressed her as she lay back on my fresh sheets. Her milky white breasts and pink nipples received attention and elicited sighs from her. But I was heading south.
I adore giving oral. Teasingly I kissed my way down. Belly. Hips. Upper thighs. Then, soft curls against my cheek and lips. Heather spread her legs and my lips met hers in a salt-sweet kiss.
I probed. Opened. Sucked. Entered. Drank her wetness.
She had the most wonderful taste. And she loved what I was doing.
Her moans and sighs were music for my dancing tongue and exploring fingers. Her wetness and heat filled my senses as I played her erect clit to a shuddering climax.
While the last waves rolled through her, Heather pulled me upwards. Her hungry mouth met mine, still slick from her beautiful cunt, and her hand found my cock, wet with precum.
Looking into my eyes she pulled me to her opening. “Are you sure?” She raised her hips to present her cunt to me and placed a hand on my arse. We touched. Our liquids mixed. I pressed inwards a little. Felt her labia spread around me. Ease back my foreskin.
She was tight from cumming, and I was gentle in filling her with my hard length. We sighed. And began to fuck. Leisurely at first. Delighting in the close intimacy. The wet gliding. Two hot bodies in contact. I could feel her different textures, feel her muscles grip and relax., feel her clit pressed hard against the base of my erection. Kissing and fucking, moving together I knew I could cum soon if I wanted. She sensed it and, “Fill me.” I pushed in deep and long. Delighting in all the sensations she could offer. And she fucked me, moaning and gasping.
And I came. Pumping jets of hot white cum inside her. I made sure she could feel my throbbing cock empty into her own pouring cunt. I knew she was close to a second orgasm so I kept moving.
Gliding easily in the mix of my semen and her juices. Faster and harder. And suddenly she was there. The amazing feeling of a woman cumming on my cock, in my arms. We kissed and slowed. Still inside, still surrounded, still held and holding. Still moving. After a while, we untangled and snuggled.
About half an hour later we began talking about the sex and how much fun it had been, and I hardened. Heather smiled and we began again. She took me in her warm mouth and I initiated 69. The heavy scent of our sex and the taste of us were a turn on for both of us and we were soon fucking very wetly.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled again and chatted. We discussed repeating the experience but didn’t make plans.
Heather messaged me when she got home and we chatted a fair bit over the next two weeks but our schedules never coincided and I didn’t want to pressure Heather.
I felt very satisfied, and, from her texts, so did Heather.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was amazingly good sex that we both enjoyed. And I loved the taste of her cunt.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have enjoyed casual sex with quite a few people. Some just one night stands, some long-term friends with occasional benefits, and one casual sexual encounter that had become my best friend.
I met my current partner with a view to having no strings sexy fun but we really struck it off and are now in a romantic relationship with the best sex ever.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it is interesting and, with the female authors, a good erotic read.
I am curious if there is good research being done from the data gathered.
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