Tinder Hookup

by Grant

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Delivery driver
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Tinder hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on tinder, started flirting and it went from there.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We exchanged a few messages on Tinder, no small talk we basically just spoke about how attracted we were too each other’s pictures, the girl in question seemed shy when it came to sex and said she never really hooks up just for sex, but she was willing too make an exception. We planned she would drive down to where I live and I would book a hotel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When she arrived to the hotel I was already there. When I let her into the room we got comfortable and chatted while drinking some beer, after a while I decided to make the move, we started kissing passionately and undressing each other. She was completely shaved however this wouldn’t have bothered me either way, I went down on her until she wanted me to stop by pushing me away because she said it was too intense. This was a huge turn on for me because she just threw me on the bed and climbed on top of me. She was crazy good on top but after a while we changed position to doggy. For a first time hookup I couldn’t believe how good she was. I was struggling to finish so we decided too have a break and went for a cigarette, I managed to finish from a blowjob after that.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we decided to watch some tv and try and get some sleep as we both had work in the morning, I don’t expect or want anything more serious with her however I would be open to the idea as a fuck buddy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t spoke to anyone about the hookup

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing was the adrenaline of the sex, also not knowing the person that well turns me on

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The worst part was I had too pay for a hotel and beer

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This hookup made me realise how easy it is too get carried away in the moment and use no protection

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think being my age casual sex isn’t seen as a bad thing, I was in a serious relationship till I was 21 and in one year I have slept with 10 girls and have no bad feelings about any of them because with all of them we agreeded it was just casual, it’s a great realease and a really good way too have fun

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great

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