What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Lisboa
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
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How long ago did this hookup happen? One year and a Half
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was at home on a boring Monday, tired from work and in need for a good moment of relaxation. Just went to Tinder to see who was around and I ended up finding a nice young girl with who I ended up talking later that night. The talk wasn’t innocent at all, we were being ironic although both of us knew what we were talking about so we ended up arranging a date for the next night.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Later on the next day we meet around my place and, to my surprise, she was a thin young lady with nice twins. We went for a small walk but after five minutes walking we were already kissing each other so we decided to go to my place that was close by. Arriving home, I could not avoid it and went down on her – she couldn’t avoid it as well, I was so horny that I was going to eat her whether she wanted it or not. She started being horny as hell so she decided to go now down on me; she was young but she had attitude and I appreciated that. After the oral, we fucked very well. She was light so she was easy to grab and to move, and I loved that – she wasn´t asking to go slowly or smoothly. She wanted it hard, as hard as possible. After one hour of pleasure we ended up sleeping at my place. In the morning she woke me with a nice blowjob and I came – what an amazing way to start the day. Both she and I left home with a kiss and a goodbye.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked sometimes but we never managed to meet again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Close friends, they were happy that I had a good time.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The casual sex and no attachment feelings.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No bad aspects.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? nope.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I believe casual sex is good when people have the open mind for it. I believe the bad aspect of it is when both people are not aligned regarding the reason why they are going to have it. Overall I think that people that have casual sex, in a safe way, are happy people with themselves.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Amazing project, I have been reading many stories here. It’s good for the imagination!
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