What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Train Driver
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 33
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M was a similar age, about 5 feet 3, a little overweight. We matched on Tinder and shortly after exchanged numbers and began chatting on WhatsApp. The chatting took a more adult turn fairly quickly, including checking STI results and that she was on the pill, and we planned to meet.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met for drinks by the waterfront in the town we live. We got a little tipsy, but no way were we drunk. We got a taxi back to mine.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were making out on the sofa, and she said to me “We aren’t going to sleep together today,” and I said “ok.” I proceeded to kiss her neck and feel her boobs through her clothes, she proceeded to moan softly.
My hand slipped between her legs and she immediately parted them for me to explore further – I knew then I still had a chance! I went to slip my hand inside her trousers and she immediately undid them for me. When my fingers reached their target I felt her wetness straight away and went to work with them. Shortly after her first orgasm, I asked if she wanted to go upstairs to which she replied yes emphatically. Once upstairs, I got her naked and went down on her. It was summer and my bedroom window was open, so when she started to get loud and scream “fuck” repeatedly I was worried my neighbours might hear! Nevertheless I gave her three more orgasms in quick, and noisy succession. I then asked her if she wanted me to put a condom on, she said “No, just fuck me, I want to feel you.” As a red blooded guy, I didn’t need telling twice. I went on top, before long I picked up the pace and came hard inside her, a little sooner than I would have liked.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed, she took a taxi home, and complained that she could feel cum dripping out of her on the ride home, but that secretly she loved it. She later messaged me to tell me that was the best oral she’d ever had and that it was super intense – something I’ve been told a few times which is nice for my ego!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A friend.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Making a girl I’d only a met a few hours before have noisy orgasms and then cumming inside her.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not lasting as long as I’d have liked.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? As long as both parties are sensible and no each others expectations it’s a very good thing indeed.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great reading.
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