by Andrew
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Media
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Ultimate Revenge Fuck
How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My ex had dated her ex when they were younger, and we had met before in larger social circle groups. We didn’t really know each other that well, but bumped into each other and realized we lived very close, had careers in common so thought we’d go for a drink. She always seems bubbly and fun.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met for a drink, and there was genuinely no thought in my head it was anything more. We got on well, and after a few drinks, we wanted a change of scene. She’d been to my flat at some point before, but I hadn’t been to hers so we walked 5 minutes up the road to her house.
After the formal tour, we slumped on the sofa, drank vodka and talked about our lives in that intimate way you can when you’re sort of strangers with sort of similarities. Can’t quite remember when, but we ended up with her lying against me on the sofa with my arm around her. I kissed the top of her head, and then she turned to face me and said, “well wouldn’t this be the ultimate revenge fuck.”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Wasn’t really out for revenge, but the idea was sexier than it was wrong. We kissed and our hands explored under each other’s clothes like they had been let loose.
I went to take her top off and she told me she hated her boobs since she’d had a child and didn’t want to turn me off. I remember thinking what was the right thing to do next, but my hands were under her top already, stroking her breasts and she seemed to take a moment and then took her top off.
I put my mouth on her left nipple and licked in a circular movement, holding her ass. She began to dig her fingernails slightly into my back…
She couldn’t seem to stay still for more than a minute and started passionately kissing my neck, undoing my shirt and then my jeans.
She undid my jeans and went down on me in a way I’d never experienced before or since. It was like she was getting herself off by having me in her mouth. It was so exciting and simply fun… we felt really mischievous and kept grinning at each other.
then she slipped her pants off and slid herself along my penis before she put me inside her and really rode me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke up and were very relaxed with each other. Laughing a lot.
We did meet 3 or 4 times after that, mostly when we were kind of horny and knew we’d have fun and were local. We didn’t ever have sex again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Not at all
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
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